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LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Date went okay. Guy was nice. We had some things in common but also were in different worlds. I think after I meet these next two people, I will quit this app thing.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
SituationCake@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Youâre going to quit because the very first person was nice and the date went well?
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
No, itâs just kind of exhausting to meet people off apps. Itâs like going on a blind date, except you have pictures of them and a little bit of chit chat.
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I only wind up with women Iâve known for a year+ through hobbies or social circles. I donât date well, Iâm a bad salesman.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I like that
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
The amount of dates Iâve been on where they were amazing in text and potatoes in real life led me to ditching the apps v
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Another potato checking in đ«Ąđ€«
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Itâs disconcerting when you have these great convos in text, get a kind of vibe going then meet the person and you canât pick that vibe up in person.
Itâs a really odd feeling. You know someone better from a distance than when youâre closer to them.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Yep, it sure is. Thatâs why in the future, I think Iâll try out calling before actually meeting the person. Hinge doesnât have that option unfortunately, so maybe Iâll have to redownload Instagram or use another app.
Yesterday, I was sleep deprived, and couldnât form my words properly. The guy said to me he didnât know what I was getting at a couple of times, even when I was talking about what happened in a movie he saw. I was so embarrassed. I think I will be ghosted.