I’m honestly disappointed in Lemmy rn…
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LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 months ago
How egotistic do you have to be to think that your opinion is warranted with regards to women’s appearance? Good for you if you think you don’t like lashes. No one asked, and I’d be willing to bet you’d see a woman with full face on including lashes or mascara and think she looks great. 🙄
The men in this thread calling women repulsive for wearing lashes are unbelievable. Imagine saying something so horrible to someone about an aspect of their appearance you personally think you don’t like. And then you wonder why no one wants to date you.
clemdemort@lemmy.world 11 months ago
kattenluik@feddit.nl 11 months ago
The fact this post is even still up and upvoted without thought is depressing, that applies even if it wasn’t specifically about women or anything else.
daemoz@lemmy.world 11 months ago
The bumper sticker slogan isn’t really wrong, i think most of us are ignorant to what we do/don’t like in this regard. I would have never said that before a month ago tbh because my wife never got them, and then when she did, I said why waste the money you dont need them. Then found myself staring at her more. I still prob wouldnt say it. As the women have shown in here we can be pretty oblivious. And I think im fairly in tune with small details making a big difference.
dramaticcat@discuss.tchncs.de 11 months ago
Not only that, OP’s post history is quite problematic.
What’s problematic about it? Because I post greentexts?
kattenluik@feddit.nl 11 months ago
There’s not much I can say to you to convince you it is problematic, but posts like this and the weird hate on other things.
zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
There’s a fraction of a fraction of a percent of Lemmy users in this thread, it’s probably not a good yardstick to measure the entire userbase by.
kattenluik@feddit.nl 11 months ago
The thread isn’t even that bad, it’s the upvotes that’re sad.
Femcowboy@lemm.ee 11 months ago
This site is becoming the same kind of mysognistic reddit was.
v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 11 months ago
I’m afraid, this isn’t exclusive to Lemmy or Reddit. It’s just patriarchy and toxic masculinity doing its thing
explodicle@local106.com 11 months ago
If I’m doing a male equivalent of fake eyelashes, I hope someone would tell me!
SlopppyEngineer@discuss.tchncs.de 11 months ago
Like wearing a muscle suit under your clothes
Gabu@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Is this a copypasta? Because I don’t care what you think, valley girls are gross
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 months ago
Nah, you’re fucking gross.
Gabu@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I’m calling a group of women gross for CHOOSING to look like a heavily deformed demi-human.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 months ago
The way you talk about the bodies of women who have nothing to do with you is absolutely disgusting. How you can call women literally demi-human and somehow think your actions are justified is beyond me. Your behavior and attitude is misogynistic and absolutely repulsive.
mriormro@lemmy.world 11 months ago
It’s not your body. So fuck you.
How about you focus on yourself, rather than judge others around you?
creditCrazy@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I think a pretty big misunderstanding is that is seems that women dress up because it’s fun. Meanwhile the only time a man puts any thought into their outfit is specifically to impress others. It’s so engrained that unless explained it never occurs to them that someone might just dress to look good to themselves. I’d imagine in the country side this division is even moreso engrained because we don’t even think about the quality of what we are wearing. What ever we wear will get covered in motor oil. It will be torn to shreds by working outside. Because of that I’m accustomed to nice outfits and makeup to be basically flirting. We think makeup and dresses are flirting on women because suits manicured facial hair and hair styles is one of the way men flirt.
aidan@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Would you judge a guy who didn’t shower for months?
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 months ago
Not taking care of your hygiene is not comparable to wearing makeup 🙄
aidan@lemmy.world 11 months ago
It’s there body though? Who are you to judge?
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 months ago
Every single human being is held to the standards of hygiene. Being unhygienic is bad for your health and can spread disease. Men are not held to the same standards of hygiene that women are. Men are not held to the same standards of appearance that women are. Men are enough punished for failing to meet those standards in the same way that women are.
Do you think women don’t get judged for being unhygienic? I run into men in public all the time who I can smell from 30 yards away and who are covered in dirt or oil or God knows what. I very rarely run into women who are comparably unkempt. Women face severe social consequences for being even slightly unkempt. Even if they’re trades workers.
And none of this is even relevant to the topic which is about makeup.
Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 11 months ago
As a dude, I want women to use this meme format for guys.
Something like, “No woman cares about your shuriken collection”. (Wow writing it out loud, I attacked myself…)
Thranduil@lemmy.world 11 months ago
If she doesnt care about our shuriken collection is she even worth it?
GiveMemes@jlai.lu 11 months ago
The onion did this once, it’s a yt video called the “attractive girls union” iirc
kablammy@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
Now I want to see a post showing off your shuriken collection