Comment on Anon is eyemaxxing

bestboyfriendintheworld@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I knew it was hopeless.

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• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  when i go on dates i’m shocked how many women can’t hold eye contact, and yet on their profile they say how much they like men who can.

  it’s almost as if people project their inabilities/insecurities onto their potential partners…

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  • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Too much eye contact can be threatening (predatory animals are really good at staring). There’s a fine line between eye contact with romantic/sexual overtones and aggressive/scary/creepy eye contact. If they’re avoiding your gaze then it might be the latter.

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  • Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    To them, you can hold eye contact, so it’s working as they prefer.

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    • Gullible@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Exactly. They want someone with the force of character, however small, to maintain eye contact. It isn’t an inherently positive trait, it’s simply a trait.

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      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Right but the point being made is that some woman who want this, who say they want this… can’t do it themselves, can’t reciprocate it.

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• Siethron@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  On the other hand I’ve met several girls who said they find eye contact (while having a conversation, not just random eye meet cutes) creepy. Granted we were teenagers when having these discussions, wonder if they still feel the same way.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    they like eye contact from hot people, and find eye contact from ugly people creepy.

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• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  stands in front of mirror, holding up my eye contacts lenses in their case, staring at them, not sure what purpose the mirror serves here…

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• miraclerandy@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Agreed. I tend to look people in the eye when they’re talking but somehow cannot do the same when I’m talking. Especially if I’m talking off the top of my head.

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