Today@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
My family is pretty liberal. Despite that i had a couple of words that i grew up hearing and didn’t realize that they meant until i was an adult. When you know better you do better.
To jew someone down when negotiating a price was one. It was just a word and i didn’t understand it until i thought about spelling it and realized. Yes, I’m dumb.
I work with kids and i often call them squirrels, monkeys, octopus, big dog, etc. i mean it as endearing and didn’t realize that it could be offensive, especially monkey racially.
My grandma worked at a convenience store in very racially mixed, very low income area. She referred to all of the kids as porch monkeys. I thought nothing of it but now realize it can be racially offensive. In her defense, it was a time when kids were sent outside morning to evening and often gathered on the porches of a free homes.
rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 18 hours ago
Today@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
I never thought of it as lazy, just kids that gather and maybe cause a little mischief, especially during school breaks.
glimse@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
I didn’t realize nigrig was (really fuckin obviously) racist until way late in life because the people I heard use it weren’t outwardly racist and pronounced it like “ne-grigged”
Today@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Somewhere along the way that became southern engineering. My mom lived in Florida for awhile so it was a good dig at both the locals and the duct tape crowd -though i grew up repairing everything with duct tape and bailing wire. My husband is an engineer - right tool for the job guy. I’m like, "pass me that mallet and a wire hanger.)
HiTekRedNek@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
“Alabama Ingenuity” is the phrase I typically use these days.
Zagam@piefed.social 19 hours ago
When getting ripped off or a bad deal, that’s being gyped. Thats against gypsies. I learned that one way late in life.
BCsven@lemmy.ca 5 hours ago
A coworker got jipped/gyped by a gyp, and now he hates them with a passion. I told him it’s his own fault. He wanted cheaper exchange rate than bank or currency exchange offered, so agreed to buy currency at a discount in an alley. They put a good bill on top and bottom and rest was paper cut to size. LOL
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
Ah yes the sort of person who does currency exchange with the Roma in an alley because they’re offering a good rate: a moron
Knossos@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
I learnt recently that even the word g**** is a slur itself. Apparently it came from people thinking they came from Egypt. Their preferred name is Roma.
yoevli@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Wow, this is my first time learning this. I don’t think I’ve ever seen it written so I assumed it was spelled “jipped” and never made the connection.
Gerudo@lemmy.zip 17 hours ago
Same boat here. TIL
Today@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
There are so many songs that refer to gypsy. I’m not sure if I’m supposed to sing along or not.