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AstralPath@lemmy.ca ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

A fancy ceremony doesn’t change how people feel about the other person, nor the level of obligations they actually have

You literally take an oath at the ceremony vowing to uphold an extremely high level of obligations to another person.

If you’re making vows at a wedding ceremony that you feel you can just nope out on if shit hits the fan, why are you getting married? What is the point?

I agree. The wedding shouldn’t change how you feel about the other person because you should already be 100% dedicated if you’re thinking of getting married.

I made a vow to my wife when we got married to care for her in sickness and in health. I do not care what happens in life, I would never abandon her. Period. That is the burden of the vow I made. In my mind my personal integrity is foundationally attached to it.

If you’re comfortable with abandoning a spouse over health issues, the marriage was a sham from the get go. Like, what are you doing at the ceremony? Making vows with your fingers crossed behind your back? 🤞🤞🤞

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