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abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

Just for a little context, the minimum age being ((your age / 2)+7) is meant to be “this is the minimum age of someone you can date without it being creepy” (i believe it originated from the TV show how i met your mother)

If you were born in 1994 you are either 30 or 31. Let’s call it 30 for easy math.

30/2 = 15 15+7=22

So anyone who is 22 or older fits the minimum age concept, which is anyone born in approx 2002/2003 or earlier. If you decided to include that, the extra 4-5 years does increase the dating pool quite a bit.

I’m not telling you who to date, just giving a little context to the math since that’s what was brought up in the original comment.

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Denjin@feddit.uk ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
No one knows the true origin of the idea but there’s a number of examples that predate how I met your mother by over a hundred years.

The first published example is Max O’Rell in Her Royal Highness, Woman: And His Majesty—Cupid from 1901

I heard the other day a very good piece of advice, which I should like to repeat here, as I endorse it thoroughly : A man should marry a woman half his age, plus seven. Try it at whatever age you like, and you will find it works very well, taking for granted all the while that, after all, a man as well as a woman is the age that he looks and feels.

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- rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Interesting, though this sounds like it’s not supposed to be the minimum age, but the ideal age.
  
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- abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Interesting stuff thanks for adding. I added an edit to address. Appreciate you chiming in
  
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Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
It had to be a thing before how I met your mother, I remember it being a thing during school in the 80-90’s

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- abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Totally fair, lots of folks have chimed in about it. Really interesting to see it’s over 100 years old (although more focused on ideal partner, not avoiding being creepy)
  
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AlolanYoda@mander.xyz ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Invert this rule to get the maximum age you can date (defined as the person whose minimum age is your current age):

min age = (your age / 2) + 7 max age = (your age * 2) - 14

If you’re 30, then you can reasonably date people between 22 and 46. So the other guy can add even more years before 1990.

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zout@fedia.io ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Also, for the maximum age they are the younger one. So assuming age is 30, substract 7 and multiply the outcome by 2, maximum date age is 46...

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