I’d probably have a bad/uncomfortable time wearing something like that in public, but that’s mostly because of self confidence issues and other people, and has little to do with the skirt itself.
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peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 1 day ago
I’m not going to disagree.
But are there women that enjoy wearing it? Just because others enjoy looking at it isn’t a great reason to.
Although if you’re on the fence between something like this and literally anything else, I will vote this.
Nyadia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
dulcisima@lemmy.world 1 day ago
peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 1 day ago
See TIL.
I think my ex wife really screwed with my understanding of the world. One of the things she convinced me of was that the “things I like to see on women are only there to attract interest.”
I’m learning a lot still it turns out.
i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
She is partially right. Some women wear sexy clothes because they want attention and/or they feel pressured to, so they might wear them, even if they don’t like them.
Some women like the way they look and feel in sexy clothes, so they just wear them for themselves. It’s not necessarily for male (or any other gender’s of interest) attention.
In my experience, the former happens less. I’m not sure if it’s due to the crowd I hang out with changing or a gradual cultural shift.
Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 1 day ago
It’s mainly this:
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Katana314@lemmy.world 1 day ago
One of my similar learnings:
“Hey, Earl, can you pick a new track?”
“Why? I love these guys.”
“Martha’s gonna be here any minute, and I feel like she’s not going to enjoy hearing rap music from this guy ranting about his bitches are all crazy and need to respect their man.”
“Man it’s just music. But fine, if you’re so prude.”
Martha: “Hey guys, I’m here-OOH, I love this song! 🎶These bitches, they so craaay-say…!”
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
I disagree but that’s just my taste