Comment on Anon tries to meet girls at college
Cethin@lemmy.zip 5 weeks agoGenerally, yes, but if you’re a pleasant person to be around you can easily get things going from lectures as well. You just need to strike up a conversation like a normal person and be friendly. The problem most of these people have is they treat women like something to be won, when instead they’re just people.
SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 5 weeks ago
Wish I was normal. I am WAY too socially awkward to start a conversation. Usually I need at least a couple of hours to warm up to somebody.
frostedtrailblazer@lemmy.zip 5 weeks ago
I feel I get that way when I’m out of practice for too long. These days, I just need a bit of coffee and I’m usually good to go with some light small talk lol.
Cethin@lemmy.zip 5 weeks ago
How do you warm up to someone without having a conversation.
papertowels@mander.xyz 5 weeks ago
Stare them straight in the eye while hip thrusting
HK65@sopuli.xyz 4 weeks ago
Occupy the same space and have group conversations instead of one-on-ones I guess.
Like, invite people to join your group instead of going out just with you, it’s less threatening and less of a “thing” I guess.
Cethin@lemmy.zip 4 weeks ago
That’s what I meant though. It should be “a thing.” It’s just a conversation. Group conversations are still conversations. You just have to see them as people, not as a goal. Once you get to know them and you find out of you actually like them, as a person, then you can more easily persue them without seeming weird.