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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Good news. :)⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  NM is there in spirit!

  kob.com/…/nmdoh-issues-health-order-to-maximize-c…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨An activist has started using AI to identify ICE agents beneath their masks⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah this is hella sketchy. It’s MAYBE one step above saying “chat gpt, show me what this agents face looks like” and then using that to try and find a match.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon tries to meet girls at college⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Stare them straight in the eye while hip thrusting

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon tries to meet girls at college⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  My friend group was always on the nerdier side in high school. One thing I’m really glad we did come senior year was we’d play poker, and the loser, if single, would be have to go and cold call ask a random gal out on a date.

  It’s liberating to know that, as long as you’re not being a creep, you can just talk to someone you think is cute and ask them out. It was especially nice to know back in the high school days lol.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon tries to meet girls at college⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Also, when people say meet others at college they don’t mean in the classes. They mean in the social events…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon goes home⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Also, dont overlook the value of healthy habits.

  I’ve seen younger siblings who subsisted on coke and PB&j in their retirement pass before their older ones.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Florida ounces⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The shortest unit of time in the multiverse is the New York Second, defined as the period of time between the traffic lights turning green and the cab behind you honking.

  • Terry Pratchett, Lords and Ladies (Discworld, #14; Witches, #4)
• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon saves up⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  That certainly is a good chunk of time, but 5 weeks minimum is stellar!

  Cheers!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon saves up⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  That’s marvelous.

  Is “very” long on the scale of like a decade or multiple decades?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon saves up⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Are y’all getting 5 weeks of vacation a year? My American mind cannot comprehend this.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon saves up⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I also fully recognize that I have a fairly generous employer. I don’t think my experience is representative of most Americans.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon saves up⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Genuine ignorance and curiosity - do y’all only do days? If you have to take half a day off, do you round up or down?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon saves up⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Employed in the US, I can stack up to 240 hours.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨"Pilot had to dive aggressively to avoid midair collision over Burbank airport."⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  A fascinating theory I read is that MAGA is making a big deal out of Epstein because it provides an off-ramp that lets them save face.

  Legit I’m like "bruh, you’re surprised that you’re billionaire ‘grab em by the pussy’, ‘accidentally’ walking into the miss teen usa, ‘I’d fuck my daughter if she wasn’t my daughter’ president is on a list of billionaire sexual predators? I’m glad that something finally looks like it might stick to him but c’mon guys.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Steam controller was ahead of its time⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I think I remember the dual thumb, but I just remember being amazed at how responsive it was

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Steam controller was ahead of its time⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Typing on this thing was a dream.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Let delivery drivers keep their⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Thanks for taking the time to walk through your thoughts - I appreciate the conversation.

  I think the particularly egregious problem with interpreting the comment as referring to the association of man=top=dom is that the meme has a gal as the dom, as you’ve pointed out, which does go against heteronormativity.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Let delivery drivers keep their⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I understand heteronormative to be about social norms centered around heterosexuality, and how that is the dominant cultural factor.

  With that understanding, viewing things through a heteronormative lens is to exclude the views of non-heterosexual folks.

  Then “heteronormative bullshit” is comparable to “heterosexual bullshit”.

  I might’ve missed some nuance - this is not my forte. However my naive understanding is that saying this was commentary on “cultural norms” is similar to saying to civil war was about “states rights”. States rights to do what? (Slavery) Cultural norms centered around what? (Heterosexuality)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Let delivery drivers keep their⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  “heteronormative” doesn’t mean “it’s the fault of straight people” are you serious

  But does “heteronormative bullshit” imply that?

  What if they’d said “I’m tired of this homosexual bullshit that glitter goes everywhere?”

  That definitely reads as “I believe it’s the fault of the queer people” to me, do you believe otherwise?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Uncultured⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I know this one! It’s a picture - a graphical depiction of something. They can come in many formats. I’ve heard they can be worth a thousand words.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I am sick of seeing the rich and powerful on my screen. Where are all the TV shows about normal people?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Bob’s burgers.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Reminder if you're leaving Discord for this Revolt server ( Linux + Steam Deck devs / creators)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  But they’re quests

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Reminder if you're leaving Discord for this Revolt server ( Linux + Steam Deck devs / creators)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I just want to make sure you notice it says “encrypted messaging” meaning matrix as a service, as opposed to “encrypted messages”, meaning selling your messages.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  If you think going down on someone is only a submissive act you haven’t gone down on someone long enough.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨^_^ I just think skibidibi sounds neat :3⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  GOOD GUYS, BAD GUYS, AND EXPLOSIOOONS, AS FAR AS THE EYE CAN SEE

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon starts talking to a girl⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Eh, idk about being sought, but the dating experience did fundamentally change after I felt confident enough to be more worried about what a potential match brought to the table than whether or not I’d get a date. The pool of applicants wasn’t big, but I was happier being solo than with the wrong person.

  For the record, I didn’t down vote you.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon starts talking to a girl⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  No, I’m saying to avoid “the majority” of women on there who likely do not share values with you.

  Would you rather actually spend your time to go on a date with them only to find how shallow and materialistic someone is? Or would you rather know in advance to not waste your time?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon starts talking to a girl⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Great, that lets you know who to avoid.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨You're*⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I distinctly remember learning this about myself after talking to someone on a dating app who used absolutely 0 punctuation. We’re talking like entire paragraphs-worth of text messages without a comma or period in sight.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dunning-Kruger⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I mean yeah, if you spent 5 years of your life pushing the edge of human understanding on a subject, and a shithead tells you to do the science on your research subject, it’s relevant lol