papertowels
@papertowels@mander.xyz
- Comment on Let delivery drivers keep their 1 week ago:
Thanks for taking the time to walk through your thoughts - I appreciate the conversation.
I think the particularly egregious problem with interpreting the comment as referring to the association of man=top=dom is that the meme has a gal as the dom, as you’ve pointed out, which does go against heteronormativity.
- Comment on Let delivery drivers keep their 1 week ago:
I understand heteronormative to be about social norms centered around heterosexuality, and how that is the dominant cultural factor.
With that understanding, viewing things through a heteronormative lens is to exclude the views of non-heterosexual folks.
Then “heteronormative bullshit” is comparable to “heterosexual bullshit”.
I might’ve missed some nuance - this is not my forte. However my naive understanding is that saying this was commentary on “cultural norms” is similar to saying to civil war was about “states rights”. States rights to do what? (Slavery) Cultural norms centered around what? (Heterosexuality)
- Comment on Let delivery drivers keep their 1 week ago:
“heteronormative” doesn’t mean “it’s the fault of straight people” are you serious
But does “heteronormative bullshit” imply that?
What if they’d said “I’m tired of this homosexual bullshit that glitter goes everywhere?”
That definitely reads as “I believe it’s the fault of the queer people” to me, do you believe otherwise?
- Comment on Uncultured 1 month ago:
I know this one! It’s a picture - a graphical depiction of something. They can come in many formats. I’ve heard they can be worth a thousand words.
- Comment on I am sick of seeing the rich and powerful on my screen. Where are all the TV shows about normal people? 2 months ago:
Bob’s burgers.
- Comment on Reminder if you're leaving Discord for this Revolt server ( Linux + Steam Deck devs / creators) 2 months ago:
But they’re quests
- Comment on Reminder if you're leaving Discord for this Revolt server ( Linux + Steam Deck devs / creators) 2 months ago:
I just want to make sure you notice it says “encrypted messaging” meaning matrix as a service, as opposed to “encrypted messages”, meaning selling your messages.
- Comment on The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme 3 months ago:
If you think going down on someone is only a submissive act you haven’t gone down on someone long enough.
- Comment on ^_^ I just think skibidibi sounds neat :3 3 months ago:
GOOD GUYS, BAD GUYS, AND EXPLOSIOOONS, AS FAR AS THE EYE CAN SEE
- Comment on Anon starts talking to a girl 3 months ago:
Eh, idk about being sought, but the dating experience did fundamentally change after I felt confident enough to be more worried about what a potential match brought to the table than whether or not I’d get a date. The pool of applicants wasn’t big, but I was happier being solo than with the wrong person.
For the record, I didn’t down vote you.
- Comment on Anon starts talking to a girl 3 months ago:
No, I’m saying to avoid “the majority” of women on there who likely do not share values with you.
Would you rather actually spend your time to go on a date with them only to find how shallow and materialistic someone is? Or would you rather know in advance to not waste your time?
- Comment on Anon starts talking to a girl 3 months ago:
Great, that lets you know who to avoid.
- Comment on You're* 3 months ago:
I distinctly remember learning this about myself after talking to someone on a dating app who used absolutely 0 punctuation. We’re talking like entire paragraphs-worth of text messages without a comma or period in sight.
- Comment on Dunning-Kruger 3 months ago:
I mean yeah, if you spent 5 years of your life pushing the edge of human understanding on a subject, and a shithead tells you to do the science on your research subject, it’s relevant lol
- Comment on Anon plays a prank 3 months ago:
Does it feel better if you say it’s a shuttle instead?
- Comment on I am from a different millenia 4 months ago:
You could put a PlayStation disk into a CD player, skip a few tracks, and listen to the songs from the game
- Comment on Time to make your decesion 5 months ago:
AAAAAAAH
- Comment on Time to make your decesion 5 months ago:
Alternatively, he’s the type of old fart that constantly makes calls when they could’ve been emails.
- Comment on Saint Luigi 6 months ago:
The discrepancy you’re pointing out across different countries is at most 18x, according to your article.
Let’s ignore, for a second, that “richness” needs to be considered in the context of COL. Yes, 1% of someone salary could make an impact in Tajikistan. But the cost of a meal for that potential donor could also bankrupt someone in Tajikistan. But let’s ignore that for now.
18x an average persons salary is a fart in the wind when it comes to the rich. Take a look.