This was my ex girlfriend, she had her a girlfriend when we met but they both understood that she was more attracted to men. We had a sit down early on and agreed that from time to time they would need some alone time, and that worked until they broke up over money.
The funny part was they were both bi, my girlfriend was more attracted to men, and her girlfriend was more attracted to women. So I saw both sides of it.
porous_grey_matter@lemmy.ml 4 weeks ago
It’s almost like there’s a spectrum
PalmTreeIsBestTree@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I kinda am into the theory we all are a little bi to a degree. Sexuality is a spectrum like autism.
kameecoding@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I mean, you are technically correct, because 0 degree is a thing and so is 100.
Evkob@lemmy.ca 4 weeks ago
Some people are definitely 100% gay, and some and definitely 100% straight, but I agree in that I think the majority of people could potentially be attracted to people of all genders.
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 2 weeks ago
even that is too strict IMO, gender and even sex are social constructs and it’s not like people are specifically attracted to the genitals.
if someone says they’re a 100% turbostraight man that still doesn’t mean jack shit, genitals and appearance are independent and almost everyone cares about both to some degree.
i just assumed i was straight until like 5 years ago, when i started realizing that actually i just like femininity A LOT and i don’t care what’s in the pants (i equally enjoy dick and puss and would quite enjoy both at once in ample amounts), and as of late i figured out that i even enjoy androgynity and some masculinity as long as there’s no fat or body hair.
i would boldly claim that sexual orientation as a concept is completely useless, it’s like summarizing people’s food preferences into categories, it makes no sense on a fundamental level.