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• Acinonyx@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  blahaj.zone

  what did you expect?

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  • ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I think they were saying that “good relationship with dad” isn’t a prerequisite for “marrying a dad-alike,” that sometimes “bad relationship with dad” also gets “married to dad-alike,” they’re just both bad guys in the latter case.

    Like, a woman who’s dad beat her/mom as a child can grow up to marry a husband who also beats her/their child too, and in that way she has married someone like her dad.

    I don’t think they were claiming that being abusive is good, nor do I think that’s the general consensus on blahaj.

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    • Samsy@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Agreed. Maybe I didn’t think about all possible variants of my introductory statement.

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