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axEl7fB5@lemmy.cafe ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• shalafi@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  To dominate sexually.

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  • PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    That is dom. Top means to penetrate the other

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• ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  As little more than just the tip 😘

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  • ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    More than a tap

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• ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  On top during sex

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  • Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Not just gay sex, any sex with power exchange. Can also include completely heterosexual mild BDSM.

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    • ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Maybe it’s me being old but it was never outside of gay sex when I was young

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      • Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        From what I’ve gathered, it’s entirely possible that some previously exclusively gay terms are now more generally applied.

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      • PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        For vanilla cis hetero sex it doesn’t apply since the man is always the top and the woman is always the bottom.

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    • PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      top means the one who penetrates the other. What you’re describing is a dom

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• PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Hi! Peter here to explain the mene. Since all the other answers are wrong, here’s the actual answer:

  Top means the person who penetrates the other (the bottom). The term originates from gay sex, since there it can be very important who is penetrating who. But it can also be applied to other sex (not just homosexual cis men). In the meme above, the implication would be that l Lois uses a strap-on or other kind of dildo to penetrate the delivery driver.

  Top often, but not always goes hand-in-hand with domination (dom/sub). Hence the dominatrix-like outfit Lois is putting on.

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