correction: there is a social stigma that having a big dick is good, thus having a big dick is good.
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Allero@lemmy.today 6 days ago
Let’s put that super clear:
There. Is. No. Good. Dick. Size.
There are ladies that prefer 7 inches, and ladies that prefer 4.
Some will not feel it deep enough, some others will say it hurts because it’s too deep.
Just…make sure you and your partner find a way to make good use of whatever you’ve got. Select poses that will set you on the right depth, do magic with other sorts of penetrative and non-penetrative sex, and just listen to each other’s bodies.
Also, to everyone who goes with “big dick = alpha” shit, you’re both wrong and make it hard to unfuck some guys’ minds on what makes them good for sex.
Owlboi@lemm.ee 5 days ago
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 days ago
stigma - a mark of disgrace or infamy; a stain or reproach, as on one’s reputation.
I’m not sure what word you meant to say, but I don’t think “stigma” was it?
Owlboi@lemm.ee 5 days ago
oh i guess ive been misusing that word lmao
exasperation@lemm.ee 5 days ago
The proper way to use it in a sentence is “stigma dick in your mouth.” Trust me, I’ve got a really good vocabulary.
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 days ago
Eh, we live and learn. I wish I could help you find the word you need, but my brain’s fried after a long day. So… best of luck, lol.
Gumbyyy@lemmy.world 5 days ago
I’m not sure what word you meant to say, but I don’t think it was supposed to be “stigma”? Smegma?
~Sorry, I couldn’t resist…~
Anomalocaris@lemm.ee 5 days ago
if you have a dick at all you should consider yourself lucky. half the population are born with a condition that causes dicklessness.
Allero@lemmy.today 5 days ago
It’s just a negative penis size!
(But really, clitoris is kinda a derivative of penis)
Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 5 days ago
It’s the other way round! A penis is more a derivative of a clit. That’s why that line along the balls exists: everything started out closer to a vulva, and that line is where the proto labia fused.
Anomalocaris@lemm.ee 5 days ago
just unzip that line for a vagina
halowpeano@lemmy.world 5 days ago
Neither is derivative of the other, they both grow from a common source. It’s like saying humans evolved from chimps, it’s not true, both came from a common ancestor that itself is neither chimp or human.
Allero@lemmy.today 5 days ago
The more I know :)
exasperation@lemm.ee 5 days ago
Yes, it’s true.