Comment on The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme

• kitnaht@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  This is the part that makes you a bad person no one wants to be around.

  Again. Wrong. Plenty of family and friends, and a whole region of my state who come to me for advice on cnc related shit, so you missed the mark there too.

  Only people who avoid me are well…people like you, who think you need to “display” how good of a person you are. Most normal people understand humor and aren’t perpetually offended. Go touch some grass and meet some people outside for once.

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  • Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Do you believe someone can’t be internally motivated to encourage and uplift their peers, or at the very least feel guilt when they laugh at someone’s expense?

    Just wondering because I was like that: I told racist jokes, had plenty of similar friends, thought trans people were fooling themselves, and anyone who challenged me was pretending to be offended. I was obviously fine because I had good life.

    Then I got older, met more people, learned more stories and when my old friends made fun of the new ones, I felt off about it. Decided I would rather hang out with the people who accepted everyone, made me feel good, and were still funny, just in a different way.

    I still feel awful about the things I said and did and kinda wish I had noticed the signs sooner. While I was embraced by one group, I was being excluded from others and didn’t even know it.

    I donno man, live your life the way you want.

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  • Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Look at this red neck hick over here drinking cheap beer who things he’s a god because people tolerate him enough to use him for his tiny island of knowledge around cnc machines.

    The only line of work he can maintain because the machine doesn’t judge him for his horrendous stench and ogre like appearance.

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  • partial_accumen@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Can I ask if you are part of a group that regularly gets belittled, made fun of, or generally disrespected? Do you embrace those jokes and stereotypes that are at your expense and laugh along with them such as “That is TOTALLY us! We are crappy just like that meme says!”?

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    • Ilandar@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You are ignoring the bit where this was a private conversation. They wouldn’t need to laugh along with jokes at their expense because, in the context you are discussing, they would never even be aware that the jokes were made.

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      • partial_accumen@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        My question is not contextualized against the original example in this thread. You’re welcome to create your own line of questions to them if you like.

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  • FearMeAndDecay@literature.cafe ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Even if we put aside the poor taste jokes and insults, sharing private conversations like what OP said his friend did is wrong and especially shitty since their purpose was to mock the other person

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