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• shneancy@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  falling asleep is the easy part, the hard part is waking up with a sore asshole knowing you need to make it worse to make it better

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  • glitchdx@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    That’s why hard plugs are for short periods of fun times, and soft plugs are for all day / all night usage.

    Speaking from experience.

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    • MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Don’t do this too often though! Prolonged dilation (>2 hours) can damage your sphincter and give you incontinence in the long run. Probably not a problem if done rarely, but if it happens regularly it can become a problem

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      • glitchdx@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Sadly, there’s a lack of formal studies to determine how often is too often. I think “pay attention to your body” is generally good advice. If anything is sore or hurting, it’s probably time to take a break. Kegel exercises also help keep the sphincter from weakening over time, useful advice even for people who aren’t into butt stuff.

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  • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I mean, your hole shouldn’t be sore in the morning unless you’re sizing up with a new plug. Especially not with a stereotypical conical thin necked black silicone one. I’ve slept with plugs with a neck diameter of like 1.25" before

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• KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  wait until you find out about chastity

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  • daggermoon@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’m aware of it, though I wish I wasn’t. I’m in to some weird shit but that’s too much for me. I think I’d prefer the butt plug.

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    • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      fascinating. I would think someone would be more keen to engage in chastity, than penetrables, but to each their own i suppose.

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      • daggermoon@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It’s too much control or trust to place in another person. Even If I didn’t have trust issues, It’s not something I’d ever be comfortable with. Like you said, to each their own however.

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