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dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

How? Asynchronous communication is better for a lot of people. And now that we have really good choices for that, it’s hard to ignore.

A phone call demands that you drop everything in that moment and pay close attention to the person on the other end. If they ramble, deviate, breathe heavily, have a lot of background noise, etc, you’re stuck with that experience for the duration. Also, recording without consent is illegal in a lot of places, so you have to be able to write things down in order to refer back to the conversation if it contains any important information.

In contrast, everything else is self-documenting, can be read through multiple times, and can be handled when there is time to focus on that task. As a bonus: most people can read and understand text faster than they can listen. So it’s just more efficient.

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AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
Which is why I’ll never understand people who send recordings. It’s the worst of both worlds.

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- LotrOrc@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  People who send voice notes piss me off so much.
  
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  - grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Oh god, a 5 minute voice note with no accompanying text, just shoot me. Like you’re really going to make me listen to you ramble on a 1x speed while you get to some point that I guarantee could fit in one or two sentences, if you took the modicum of brain power required to compose your thoughts into coherent words.
    
    PS. I understand a lot of people love sending voice notes back and forth, and that’s totally fine if it’s the thing.
    
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    WoodScientist@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    How to really be Satan: send an important video note. Make it recorded outside with a lot of wind and background noise. Then, just to be fun, slow the video down to 80% playback speed, reencode it, and send that!
    
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- WoodScientist@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  What if I send you a link to a video message I recorded and posted on YouTube? Also it has ads on it.
  
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bluewing@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
I absolutely detest text messaging or emails. You have a problem? Call me because I can probably solve your issue in one minute of phone call. I have been almost always been subjected to texting sessions that lasted for several hours because the dumbass on the other end lacked the spelling and vocab skills to provide an accurate written description of the problem.

Time is money and even sometimes life threatening unless the fastest method of communication is use. And fastest ain’t an email or text.

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- Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  Long way to say you’re a slow reader
  
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  - bluewing@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Think of it as a way to say you have no clue how to communicate correctly through the written word. By the time I’m forced to wade through your lack of punctuation, misspellings and the autocorrect blunders and the stupid emojis to decipher what you REALLY meant, I already have equated your IQ to be around the range of my old orange tabby cat.
    
    If you send me a text, I will consider it of such low priority that I might get back to you in a week or so.
    
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    Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    This whole statement vibrates in Boomer
    
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    angrystego@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Perhaps you could consider that for diverse reasons people have different prefered ways of communication. You have your own prefered way for your own reasons and that’s ok. That doesn’t mean you should disrespect other people’s communication choices or them personally.
    
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- grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  I firmly disagree, but that’s because for me writing and reading are much easier than verbal communication.
  
  This issue really only comes up when people like you have people like me have to communicate.
  
  This is also why I keep a notebook at work. Without it, spoken exchanges would essentially be a lacuna in a conversation for me.
  
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Droggelbecher@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
That thing about there not being a recording is precisely why emails give me mad anxiety and calls do not. Granted, you have to tell/text me to find a time that works for both. Otherwise, I’ll return the call at my convenience. Also, I hate when a task has to be on my mind for several days because there’s back and forth over email because of questions. Makes me anxious as well. Guess what I’m saying is, people have different preferences for different reasons and that’s fine. No reason to argue why you think your preference is objectively superior.

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- WoodScientist@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  
  Granted, you have to tell/text me to find a time that works for both.
  
  My nightmare: when I ask someone what times they are good for, and they give one specific time on one specific day.
  
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- grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  Oh wow that’s so strange. I love emails, because I can reread everything I just said before hitting send. Whereas when I’m having a verbal conversation, I’m never going to say things as clearly/accurately because I feel like I’m just riffing off of the top of my brain pan.
  
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werefreeatlast@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
This is precisely why you should never quit via a conversation with HR. You should send HR and your personal email an email detailing your resignation. Same for anything else that is sensitive. I’m fact you should keep record of everything you do for the company via email. It helps you personally because you can show how many good things you did that year. They can’t comeback and say you were Lazy if you can show an email trail showing the exact opposite. Similar in cases of sexual or racial abuse…don’t say anything to the perps…email them describing exactly what they did and cc or bcc your self and HR.

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