tigerjerusalem
@tigerjerusalem@lemmy.world
Just a bastard roaming around the world
- Comment on Movie lines people laughed at in theaters despite not actually being intended to be funny? 2 weeks ago:
In Before the Midnight, at three theater with my wife at the time, when the couple are at the hotel having a serious argument. I was losing it, laughing uncontrollably, because it mirrored my abusive relationship I was having with her so damn perfectly.
I’m not married anymore.
- Comment on What do you do with your time after leaving Reddit? 3 weeks ago:
I use my phone to read books. Every micro break is a couple or more of paragraphs I read. I lost count of how many books I already finished instead of just doomscrolling…
- Comment on RIP in pieces 5 weeks ago:
I like Xitter more, as in “shitter”.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
I read about those you pointed out and the avoidant attachment style ticks some boxes… It’s definitely something I’ll bring up on the next session, thanks!
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
This is something I have to take into consideration, thank you very much for your reply.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
I have trouble giving, specially after surviving a long abusive marriage. I divorced years ago but I guess some scars still remains.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
That’s really interesting, and for some reason something I never thought it was possible. Thank you.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
This… I never thought about that, it makes sense. It’s definitely something I’ll look into too, thank you.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
I try… I do play guitar and I like to draw, and ride my motorcycle, but then… I don’t know, I feel empty. I look at these things and enjoy doing them a lot, but when I stop I start asking, what’s the point? Nobody will see this or hear this or whatever. Why even bother? When I’m alone and go to a show or watch a movie I always get that dread after the deed, the “you’re doing this alone and this is wrong” feeling.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
This is definitely an issue, I do have low self-esteem and getting older is not helping my case. Everything physical is getting harder to do and taking a toll both physical and mentally, which is a tough pill to swallow because I was always very active. Getting old sucks.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
That’s really interesting, I’ll look into it. I’m doing therapy for a year now and decided to ask here to see if you people could give me insights to talk to my therapist. I’ll take these to her too, thank you very much.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
You’re right, I’m doing therapy for a year now but things works really slow. I’m talking a lot about this with my therapist, and thought that asking here could bring me some insights to discuss with her.
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
I think so, yes, but then my girlfriend likes to be around and is really upset when I ask to be alone. She’s not wrong thought, because if left by myself I can disappear for a long time…
- Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship? 1 month ago:
To me, it’s a mix of feeling like a failure and feeling that nothing quite matters. I mean, I do get to do things I enjoy, and I enjoy it a lot, but I never feel satisfied - I just feel empty. It’s kinda like having a feeling of obligation to be with someone, and that’s there’s something wrong with me for being alone. Like a nagging voice in the back of my head saying “this is not ok”. I don’t know if this makes sense.
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- Comment on Baldur's Gate 4 Isn't Next For Larian; Something Bigger Is Coming | Spot On | Gamespot 1 month ago:
Cyberpunk cyberpunk cyberpunk please please please
- Comment on What is a "tax write off"? 3 months ago:
So if I get this right: I lost 80 million by making this movie and shelving it. I made another movie that I spent another 80 million but made 40 million in profit. Then, instead of paying taxes for 120 million (the 80 million it made + 40 million extra) I’ll pay only over the 40? This would start to make sense about Warner Brothers…
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- Comment on What’s a “sovereign citizen “? 3 months ago:
Perhaps the most egregious (or successful, depending on your point of view) example would be constitutional sheriffs.
Shit, this went from harmless nutcases to completely terrifying.
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- Comment on Samsung advertising new phone in my notifications 3 months ago:
This is so weird, I don’t see ads anywher-
remembers that NextDNS is installed
Oh. Right.
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- Comment on Gen Z is prioritizing living over working because they've seen 'the legacy of broken promises' in corporate America, a future-of-work expert says 3 months ago:
Oooh, cool word play! I like it.
Also, I find it funny* that we somehow can afford rent but are not qualified to pay a mortgage with monthly payments that costs the same.
*enraging
- Comment on Gen Z is prioritizing living over working because they've seen 'the legacy of broken promises' in corporate America, a future-of-work expert says 3 months ago:
It reeks of those headlines saying that millenials/gen zs are “losing interest in buying cars and houses”.
Motherfucker, interest has nothing to do with it. We can’t afford it!