tiredofsametab
@tiredofsametab@fedia.io
Reddit -> Beehaw until I decided I didn't like older versions of Lemmy (though it seems most things I didn't like are better now) -> kbin.social (died) -> kbin.run (died) -> fedia.
Japan-based backend software dev and small-scale farmer.
- Comment on What would the next pres of USA have to do to gain back trust for America? Hold a televised event saying the last person was just a fuck up? 2 weeks ago:
US citizen living abroad. Not going to happen in one presidential term and the US has probably permanently fucked itself in terms of special currency/status/soft power ever getting back to the level it was.
- Comment on 🐙 Octopus is Octopus 🐙 2 weeks ago:
I thought it was octopuxen?
- Comment on How do I become a sea boat worker 2 weeks ago:
OP: retired at 35.
It didn't sound like money was the issue here.
- Comment on How do I become a sea boat worker 2 weeks ago:
I need to get away from the gun in my safe calling me.
Running away only works for so long. As the great poet once said, wherever you go, there you are.
I would recommend professional help.
- Comment on According to an MIT study, relying on ChatGPT for stuff like essays and creativity leads to cognitive atrophy and such. What should I do when writing stories without ChatGPT and other AI chatbots? 3 weeks ago:
... as someone in his 40s, this post makes me irrationally angry. Write. Don't know what to write? Write something, anything, anyway until it starts to go somewhere. Read more, both authors you like/admire and maybe something you don't to see what else is around.
- Comment on When did programming become "coding"? 3 weeks ago:
I described myself as a coder for a while somewhere around '03 or '04 IIRC.
- Comment on The person who mounted a spice rack into the fucking studs so a fridge won't fit there 3 weeks ago:
Unscrew it. Throw it away. Keep your spices away from light and air.
- Comment on Japan cancels cherry blossom festival over complaints of tourists littering and ‘defecating’ in yards 2 months ago:
As the article points out, we're also in an election (voting is today (Sunday Japan time)) so the cynical side of me worders if the timing is coordinated since fear and "foreigners bad" are successfully distracting from actual issues of rising prices and stagnant wages leading to a lower quality of life
- Comment on Japan cancels cherry blossom festival over complaints of tourists littering and ‘defecating’ in yards 2 months ago:
Some people think the cost savings of installation, maintenance, and salaries are the reason they''ve not returned
- Comment on Obsidian's The Outer Worlds 2 Underperformed, and There Won't Be a Third - IGN 2 months ago:
There were unpatched issues in the first one (it's been so long now I don't remember them all but there was one in a DLC where you're supposed to be able to give an item to a robot NPC but it was just broken in addition to several others).
Looking at the price and thinking of that, it was a "pass until decent sale" for me.
I do like the setting generally (at least based on the first one). It might be neat to have someone else take over the IP and go somewhere with it.
- Comment on Borderlands 4 for Nintendo Switch 2 likely axed, as Take-Two says it’s ‘paused’ development | VGC 2 months ago:
Fuck Pitchford and Take2 -- sell the IP to someone who will do something cool and bring back Eddings.
- Comment on jellyfish go to hell 2 months ago:
I had sea cucumber for the first time the other night (along with 鮟肝 (ankimo - monkfish liver). Sea cucumber flavor was fine but texture wasn't my favorite (I also don't like crunching on cartelige). Ankimo was smooth and delicious. Shiokara is also great. Shirako (your fish jizz) is great battered and fried, but I've never had the guts to try it raw.
- Comment on jellyfish go to hell 2 months ago:
Jellyfish tastes OK. It's more a texture than a flavor. I have no idea which species I've been served. Why, yes, I do live in eastern Asia where something trying to be inedible to humans is taken as a personal affront.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
I don't find emoji or even emoticons professional, but I'm also in my 40s so take that for whatever it's worth. I imagine younger people would feel less of a taboo around them.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
Just arranging it the last time in person. Mail worked just fine to confirm or cancel a bit before since the same city. If you needed things more quickly, couriers was one way. There were also a lot third spaces and people met out and about more and more often. They might see each other every Sunday at the same church for instance.
Up until I was in uni, even payphones didn't matter most of the time since there's no guarantee both parties are going to be near one and no normal person had a pager. If you were going to a business that had a phone, you could look up their number and call them to put one of your buddies on the line or at least send a message (see the running gag on the Simpsons where Bart calls the bar to ask for someone).
We also just waited a bit and if they didn't show, we went on with our plans.
- Comment on Why do you need a launcher? (asking older gamers actually) 3 months ago:
We don't, really. I certainly grew up without them. It did both good and bad things. It did centralize and simplify some things, but that came at a cost of freedom for more power users. It was great for sorting out dependencies at a time games were still often bad at doing that cleanly on their own for less-technical people. I think it did good things for community, though, particularly for those of us who did not use any modern consoles that had various party/SNS-like features baked in.
- Comment on If the 2028 United States presidential election was held today, who would you vote for? 3 months ago:
Not the GoP. Not the green party, at least with Stein still around. Not the dems after all their nonsense. So... I don't know; we'll have to see who runs. The "good" news for anyone disliking my selections is that the (heavily-Gerrymandered) district means my vote will almost certainly mean fuck all anyway (assuming they don't come up with some bullshit to throw out overseas votes to begin with since I can't really do anything about that).
- Comment on What common American habits do people find quietly annoying? 3 months ago:
I met one really drunk Russian guy years ago, but the bar was so loud everyone basically had to yell so I can't really count it
- Comment on What common American habits do people find quietly annoying? 3 months ago:
Sure. The post asked specifically about Americans and, perhaps by virtue of living in East Asia, I haven't run into that many loud Europeans lately.
- Comment on What common American habits do people find quietly annoying? 4 months ago:
Americans are mostly super loud. You can hear them from forever away like they're competing to be the loudest in any space. ~ someone originally from the US that had this pointed out to me.
- Comment on People like this 4 months ago:
People are much more likely to write a complaint letter than a praising one. Same as it ever was but internet version.
I worked for a company that had a post karma system before reddit ever existed. It was no different then. No matter how much we said that the downvote button is not a dislike button, it changed nothing.
- Comment on Facts to share at dinner #1: Shagreen 4 months ago:
I use wasabi grinding paper all the time!
- Comment on Why do people still eat beef when we know it's terrible for Earth? 4 months ago:
I only eat beef on special occasions a handful of times per year and, if I'm buying, make sure it is as local as possible. Bonus points if it's from a farm that has land that's otherwise crap for vegetable/staple farming (which is a lot here in mountainous Japan)
- Comment on Say, the country/countries you have citizenship in, decided to not want you anymore and threw you to some random "3rd world country", how do you survive? 4 months ago:
I have two citizenships and permanent residency in a third country, so that seems unlikely. In the spirit of the question, though, immediately start drilling language and learning customs. If they have IT jobs, particularly in English, I'm already ready to work. I also have my own small farm so experience there as well. I've worked in many industries in my life, so I can jump into many things.
The kicker is probably the legal side and then finding housing which just requires doing whatever is needed. I assume I have whatever assets I had, my phone, etc.
- Comment on Touch Screens Are Over. Even Apple Is Bringing Back Buttons. 4 months ago:
I was in a big city recently and had business by their BYD dealership. I walked in as I had never seen any of the cars in person. Two of the models they had had physical controls (both the low(er?)-end ones). If I had planned on buying, that would have ruled 2/3 of what they had out. One complaint about my current vehicle is that it has touchscreen exclusively for all the HVAC controls (I have music controls on the wheel). I'm used to my older cars from (my an '83, '86, '95, '97, and '03 in order of model year) that I could adjust anything without taking my eyes off the road. I don't mind ALSO having a tablet for navigation and the like, but want my main controls to all be physical.
- Comment on How long until we can start shorting years to 2 numbers again? 4 months ago:
We already do in colloquial Japanese.
- Comment on Apparently your hobbies becomes less interesting if you're forced to do them all the time? Who knew? 4 months ago:
I worked in the MMO industry and played a lot of them, including ones I didn't want to (and some that never saw the light of day or folded almost immediately). The last one I kept playing was Rift: Planes of Telara and, when they did an overhaul of stuff, I couldn't be bothered to learn all the new stuff and just quit. That was probably 15ish years ago at this point. It also kinda ruined a lot of gaming for me for years. I do play games again now, and I do sometimes feel the itch for an MMO, but I haven't played one again.
- Comment on A cool feature/mechanic you want to see in games again 5 months ago:
- an absence of quick-time events (I hate those things in cut-scenes, parry systems, etc.)
- a mode that allows the player to destroy the environment, NPCs, etc. including, when on, making the game unable to be completed potentially. I think having that be a toggle will still allow people to relive older RPGs where you could easily ruin your life without knowing for hours.
- Off-the-wall weapons. I think Blood 2 had a few and even halflife 2
- Counting beyond 2, speaking of the above.
- Comment on Not to get all religous but was not Jesus pissed for people making money in churches? Didn't he flip tables and everything? Then how do churches nowadays explain the collection plate? 5 months ago:
Assume that this is an apocalyptic Jew before rabbinic judaeism. That should frame thinks a bit better. The problem, at least as I understand it, is people doing commerce, particularly for a profit, in a sacred space. I do t think the money was the problem in and of itself, but rather the execution and motive. In another story, biblical Jesus tells someone of wealth and power that what he needs to do is give all of that up and he was quite miffed (in a very tldr telling)
- Comment on Why do languages sometimes have letters which don't have consistent pronunciations? 5 months ago:
For cases where it sounds like another letter, why not just use that one?
Which the other one? Within English itself, the same letter can be pronounced a number of ways. It's like when people want to "fix" English spelling, they always assume it's going to be their dialect that wins.