JustARaccoon
@JustARaccoon@lemmy.world
- Comment on what are the grievances with the "male loneliness epidemic"? 6 hours ago:
After reading most of these comments I’ll have to say this comment resonated the most with me. It’s exhausting to always be the one who needs to put in effort to talk to new people, and then you need to maintain it pretty much one sidedly as well, you end up just giving up on it and looking more for good friends to rely on than romantic things.
I’ve heard from female friends that there are women also dealing with this so it’s not a uniquely male thing, but social norms have sadly made it so and it really gets to you as a guy when you’re not also being pursued by people. I’ve seen some nice clips tangential to this asking women when was the last time they bought flowers for a guy and some of them couldn’t think of an instance, it’s rough out there, and unless you’re at the top of your game it’s a huge struggle, and with the economy as it is a lot of people people rightfully are, but as you say women are usually better trained to work together on this stuff, whereas guys largely aren’t and suffer alone as a consequence. I’m lucky to have some good male and female friends I can open up to, but I definitely feel like the exception on that.
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
You should find a cheap steam controller :p
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
Ah yeah I see. Tbh I rarely use it myself but i only play pc games at my desk so I can always use my mouse.
On gyro it’s rare to find controllers without one these days I think unless it’s like a super cheap 10 gbp controller
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
I meant in the post haha
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
What features are deal-breaker when missing for you? More than 2 back buttons?
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
8bitdo pro 3
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
Yeah I’m eyeing the controller op mentioned, 3 trigger buttons + 2 back pedals that I can customize via steam input is the dream. Most 3rd party controllers only let you map to existing buttons on the controller
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
I know this is a software solution but if this is for steam there’s an option under controller settings to use a Nintendo layout. I can appreciate the issue more though when you predominantly grew up playing a different platform from the one you’re playing now
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
It also has a switch to toggle the triggers to either let you slowly pull on them or act as buttons, comes with some longer sticks as an option, and an instant disconnect button. I bought it a while back and the build quality is pretty decent, and looks pretty.
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
It’s probably just more costly on the manufacturing side. More molds, more pieces to work with, modular structure etc etc. I also think it’s not as impactful, not sure about you but I’ve developed enough muscle memory to not even look at the front facing buttons, as long as I have Xbox button layouts in games, even with playstation controllers lol
- Comment on Why aren't there many controllers with the ability to physically swap out the ABXY layout between Xbox/PC and Nintendo layout? 1 week ago:
I’ve had the complete opposite experience. So many third party controllers offer hall effect joysticks, macros, back pedals, options for linear or button triggers, etc at a much lower cost than first party controllers. The only thing they’re missing is the dual sense motors but that’s proprietary.
I recommend checking out the 8bitdo controllers linked in the article, and the FANTECH WGP14-V2 which you can find on AliExpress.
- Comment on Former BioWare exec producer says EA was pitched multiple times to remaster the first three Dragon Age games 1 week ago:
remaster, not remake
- Comment on Domino’s Pizza profits dive as people cut back on takeaways in UK 2 weeks ago:
Dunno man, meateor is so good, just swap out the meatballs they keep falling off the slices.
- Comment on Developer wants to build 60 apartments and 24 parking spots. New York politician tells him to build less housing and more parking spots 3 weeks ago:
The only reason being young is a requirement is because of the lack of walkable cities in the US making people there semi sedentary
- Comment on Darksiders 4 | Announcement Teaser 3 weeks ago:
Fyi Reddit spoiler masking doesn’t work on lemmy. You need to use `::: spoiler spoiler
:::`
- Comment on RPGs that are optionally pacifist? 4 weeks ago:
spoiler
Talking about the section where you’re directing Reed from a distance through a stealth section, there’s a couple of spots where you can preemptively act to have Reed not just stealth kill them or smth
- Comment on Phonecall campaign to tell MasterCard & Visa to stop censoring adult content 4 weeks ago:
For every person who’s civically aware enough to choose not to there are 10 people out there who don’t know or don’t care enough to do the same.
- Comment on nobody in webdev knows what graceful degradation is anymore 4 weeks ago:
Took me ages to find a snippet that has a manual dark mode toggle but in a way that works with prefer-color-scheme so by default it inherits your settings but you can overwrite it… It’s just not a priority for a lot of people or they’re ok with the site flashing or something.
- Comment on RPGs that are optionally pacifist? 4 weeks ago:
Yeah there is one section in the DLC that you have to work extra hard to avoid useless killing…
- Comment on Which of theses games should i play? 4 weeks ago:
If you got burnt out on Minecraft have a look at Vintage Story too
- Comment on Itch.io is delisting NSFW games due to pressure from payment processors 4 weeks ago:
I mean the issue here is not with the money itself, it’s the payment processors
- Comment on I just went onto reddit to a intrest subreddit which happens to be NSFW and i got this, fuck reddit im glad i quit it. 4 weeks ago:
Except you’re not at the risk of the liquor store owners storing a copy of your ID when they quickly review it
- Comment on Ofwat to be abolished as ministers look to create new water regulator 4 weeks ago:
Doesn’t matter what they can do, just what they promise they will do, and when one side (Labour) gives up on taxing the wealthy and improving life and instead is parotting the same anti-immigration drivel while the other is promising to make people richer and better by blocking immigration why would people vote for Labour again when they can vote for the easy win promise of the latter?
- Comment on Everything is a problem 4 weeks ago:
Slower but up to spec for most people unless you need high data transfer speeds, and it also provides wider range than 5ghz.
- Comment on Tales of Arise - Beyond the Dawn releases 9th November, 2023. 4 weeks ago:
I know I'm a year late but:
“Renans” is only ever used to describe the converted dhanans in game, yes the hologqui or whatever their name is are the actual people of Rena and their name translates to “renans” but we don’t refer to them as renans, and the marketing for a dlc very much won’t spoil that huge twist either, they’ll talk with the expectation that many people won’t have played the base game.
- Comment on Public transit in Chengdu, China versus Toronto, Canada 5 weeks ago:
Someone should let the leadership of Toronto know, they keep increasing costs with having it go underground
- Comment on DOGWALK is a free casual game from the Blender Studio out now 5 weeks ago:
Why maintain their own when Godot is more specialised and can be extended to be fully compatible with blender workflows?
- Comment on Vintage gaming advertising pictures: a gallery 1 month ago:
Oh god how is that meant to boost PS2 sales 😂😂😂
- Comment on How come nobody does anything about North Korea? 1 month ago:
I don’t know enough about how the rest of the world runs to generalise further
- Comment on How come nobody does anything about North Korea? 1 month ago:
People in power in the west are barely moving the needle for their own people sadly.
Also even if they did, they’d still need a valid cause to start an international conflict I think, it’s why Russia tried the “it’s actually russians in Ukraine that are being oppressed and we’re liberating them” excuse