kwedd

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨My mom tells me I should cut dad off for cheating on her, am I a bad person for not wanting to do so?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  She hated my feminine behaviour/preferences growing up and still does and used to berate me for that. She didn’t support me when I came out as gay.

  So she never accepted you as you are and didn’t support you when you needed her most? Your dad’s no saint, but if I were in your position, I’d sooner end contact with my mother than my father.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨My mom tells me I should cut dad off for cheating on her, am I a bad person for not wanting to do so?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Tell his son or daughter that he made a mistake, and there right thing to do, assuming the relationship was untenable, would’ve been to end things with his wife before pursuing someone else.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨My mom tells me I should cut dad off for cheating on her, am I a bad person for not wanting to do so?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  A good mother will prioritize the wellbeing of her children over winning a conflict with her (ex) partner. It is completely unfair of her to ask you to pick a side or go no contact with your father. Hopefully she’ll realize this once she’s had some time to process her (understandable) emotions. In the mean time, best of luck to you!

  NGL, IMO your dad sounds like kind of a piece of shit (based on the limited information available to me). However, at the end of the day he is still your father and it’s not your job to punish him for that. That’s your mother’s lawyer’s job.

  Be there for your mother if you feel up to it (and you love her), but keep in mind that it’s a parent’s job to emotionally support their children, not the other way around.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon takes the last bus⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Should’ve stayed on the bus. Never let them know their disguise doesn’t work on you. Now they might be coming after anon.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I can't believe it⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’d eat that, and in only a little drunk.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Rocky rock rocking⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Yes you would!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is there a historical event, person or time period you'd like to see made into a series?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’d like you see a series about the founding and early years of New York, when it was still called New Amsterdam.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  In The Netherlands I’ve heard opinions ranging from “Every citizen is Dutch” to “You’re Dutch if you embrace our values” to “You’re Dutch if you speak Dutch at home”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What TV cancellation are you most upset by?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Threshold really should have gotten more than one season. Unfortunately, I don’t think anybody’s ever heard of it.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Sure. Whatev's⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Only if it’s yellow light.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Greatest video game ever played?⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Deus Ex

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What I thought some abbreviations/emoticons meant vs what they actually meant⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  I thought it meant “so much hate”.