How did we come to say something courteous to someone after they’ve sneezed

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• radix@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Off the top of my head, I think something in traditional European beliefs said that the soul was at risk of flying out of the nose when one sneezed. Hence people would say “bless you” in case you died and were at risk of otherwise falling into hell.

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  • frosty99c@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    “A sneeze is your soul trying to leave your body. Saying God Bless You shoves it back in.”

    I always say this as a joke. I’m pretty sure it’s from the Simpsons, and not an actual historical belief. If you have any source that shows this an old wives tale or folkloric legend, I’d love to see it. That’d make it even funnier to me haha.

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    • adespoton@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I was told this explanation in the 1970s by someone who was told it in the 1930s. So unless Groening is a time traveler, it didn’t originate with the Simpsons.

      www.snopes.com/fact-check/bless-you/ is a good read; the truth is that Europeans and Middle Easterners have been doing it for so long (at least 2000 years) that the reason is lost to time; now it’s purely tradition/cultural. Early writings record that it was done, but not why.

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    • Bloodwoodsrisen@lemmy.tf ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Makes sense why my mom sneezes upwards of ten times in a row now

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• hark@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I don’t know, but I wish it’d stop.

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  • regalia@literature.cafe ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Yeah we should just blankly stare at them instead as they cover you in a mist of snot

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    • hark@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      If someone sneezes directly at me then the last thing I’d want to say is “bless you”.

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• TopShelfVanilla@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I use the German word Gesundheit. It means health. I will offer it for most audible bodily functions, though, not just sneezes.

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  • hoshikarakitaridia@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    That’s funny.

    I use it for all of those, but also if someone uses or words I don’t understand or if they bite their tongue or anything similar. I successfully managed to confuse a lot of people doing that and it brings me great joy.

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• originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  i dont know why but i always assumed it relevant/appearing around the black death in the middle ages

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• squiblet@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  It's hard to say when it began, but it's a nearly worldwide tradition. Check out this page of different salutations:
  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Response_to_sneezing
  My belief is that it's generally because sneezing in a sign of illness, and illness tended to be more dangerous centuries ago, before antibiotics and when many people had less access to nutrition, consistent heating, sanitation and so forth.

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• clockwork_octopus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  You can say “Godzilla” if you want to

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• slippery_salmons@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I always thought we should say excuse me like if we farted or burped. I do say that after sneezing sometimes.

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• bjg13@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  It’s because the demons fly out of you when you sneeze, and you need to be blessed to prevent them from getting back in, or so they thought back in Black Plague days.

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• Extrasvhx9he@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  For bless you think it started because of the old wives tale that states that when someone sneezes, they skip a heartbeat or something similar.

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• PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  God bless you mother fucker

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  • Wollang@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Image

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    • PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      🤣

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• Wollang@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Also those are the only two I actually know, so I’d love to learn others

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  • President_Pyrus@feddit.dk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    In Denmark we say “prosit”, Latin for “may it help”. The funny thing is that in German they use prosit for “cheers”.

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• FaizalR@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  @Wollang Yarhamkallah.

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