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• betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Yeah, the fix starts with a divorce lawyer though and isn’t a technology problem.

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  • jqubed@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    And getting a completely new phone and number while you’re at it

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  • fromhome@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

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    • betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Still ends with you having control over your device though.

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• Skunk@jlai.lu ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Guys, the divorce message has been passed and heard, the worm is in the apple.

  Now let’s be the geek squad we are and find a good tech solution for OP.

  Sadly I can’t help as I don’t know shit about the iPhone.

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• CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  It can be disabled.

  You need the PIN.

  You’ll also need to leave the Apple Family.

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  • Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    This here!

    Only one who is able to read and understand what is helpful.

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• Jerb322@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  If this is real, GET OUT!

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  • fromhome@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

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    • TurnOnTheSunflower@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’m sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you.

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    • NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Yeah, my mother was with a guy she was dependent on when I was a kid. He was also a drunk, violent and controlling. Dunno if this guy is violent, but this level of controlling usually gets violent. You’re doing your kid a disservice by staying with him, and they might very well resent you for it later in life, or at the very least learn an extremely unhealthy relationship model from the two of you. Either way, good luck with this. Others have told you how to actually get rid of the parental controls for real. I think you’re gonna find its not as simple as just uninstalling stuff.

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• Sanctus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Just go into the screen time settings on your iPhone and turn it off. If you can’t, hes given you either a child account (most likely) or a supervised icloud (highly doubt). This goes beyond any of that though. I wouldnt be married to anyone that controlling. Thats some wind up in a body bag for a guy talking to you shit.

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  • fromhome@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

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    • Sanctus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Get a divorce lawyer. You’ve got bigger problems. The iPhone will be free when you are.

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• Brkdncr@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Get a used phone from a friend and hide it from your controlling husband.

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• NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Yeah…get a divorce.

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• themeatbridge@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  This is not healthy husband/wife behavior. If you don’t feel comfortable talking with him about your own freedom, then you don’t have a husband, you have a captor. If you live in the US or EU, there are resources to help you escape.

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• dadarobot@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  have your husband remove the feature. explain all the downsides like how it affects your work and social life to not be able to add contacts.

  if he refuses, as the rest of the comments point out, you may be in an abusive relationship. a marriage is built on trust. would he accept you locking down his phone the same way?

  otherwise, maybe go pick up a burner phone from walmart or something.

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