Well the main disadvantage of victimhood is that you are a victim.
AFAIK, other than being able to “play the victim card,” which usually ends in people accusing you of doing that, there is no advantage of being a victim.
Submitted 8 months ago by Dr_Satan@lemm.ee to [deleted]
Well the main disadvantage of victimhood is that you are a victim.
AFAIK, other than being able to “play the victim card,” which usually ends in people accusing you of doing that, there is no advantage of being a victim.
Here’s one advantage of being a victim. Your assertions are given an automatic +1 veracity. Because no one dare question your suffering.
Here’s one disadvantage of being a victim. It’s a disempowering narrative.
So you’re saying that an advantage of being a victim is that people believe you?
If only that were true…
Pros: you get to shrug off personal responsibility, and reap the (meager) benefits of being a charity case
Cons: you don’t grow as a person, and never accumulate much of anything important or lasting
Being able to blame someone else for something that happens to me makes me hate myself less and reduces the amount I want to die.
The disadvantage is that people might correctly identify their enemies and do something about it. Can’t have that!
There is no advantage to being a victim that can even scratch the surface of the disadvantage of being a victim.
Only people who have never really been a victim can imagine there’s anything remotely resembling an advantage.
I can’t imagine there’s anybody that has never been victimized. What a deranged concept.
GlitterInfection@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Being the victim isn’t a choice so this question is nothing but problematic.
wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 8 months ago
Being a victim isn’t a choice. “Victimhood” or “vicim mentality” can be a choice.
GlitterInfection@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That is a very problematic take, though.
Who gets to decide that a person has a “victim mentality?” If it’s not the person you’re labeling, then it’s not so much a choice they have made as it is a judgement you’ve made.
Dr_Satan@lemm.ee 8 months ago
That’s so full of yikes that I just can’t.