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mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

Lots of guys are dumb AF and either can’t pick up on any signals, or interpret everything as a signal.

Don’t forget that not every woman is the same. Actions that are signals for one woman aren’t signals for another

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curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
Also true.

Either way its safe to assume not interested then, not interested now.

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- GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
  Here’s a handy guide to tell, is she into you.
  
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  - shalafi@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
    Yes, to all of the above, with caution.
    
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Default_Defect@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
Exactly this, my former roommate used to flirt with me all of the time, but I knew she wasn’t actually into me. It’s just how she acts with her friends.

Meanwhile, a coworker that apparently was into me never acted as if she liked me as more than friends, so I treated her as a friend. I had to find out much later from a mutual friend after she assumed I must not have been interested.

For some people, the “obvious signs” aren’t signs at all. Other people think they’re telegraphing strongly enough to be seen, but aren’t.

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