I suspect people are just good at identifying incels
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kshade@lemmy.world 2 months ago
ITT: People who never had an intrusive thought and also people who get awfully judgy about someone’s immediate feelings.
Decency is not acting on negative emotions and impulses, not not having them at all.
lurklurk@lemmy.world 2 months ago
kshade@lemmy.world 2 months ago
“We have found a witch! May we burn her?”
ameancow@lemmy.world 2 months ago
On the other hand, the act of sharing this response without also sharing a method of resolution and/or a framing or context that makes it a passing feeling and not a “harsh reality about current society” or whatever your brain will try to attach to, just provides miserable people yet another rumination topic to get lost down.
For healthy adults, you learn how to manage or avoid rumination. For people without social experience, without a healthy level of emotional intelligence, and especially without good, involved parenting, a young mind can take a post like this and just get absolutely lost down the rabbit-hole of negative validation. Seeing someone in the community you connect with sharing a feeling that your already depressed brain can latch onto is a recipe for depressive contagions.
Get your teenagers off the internet people.
kshade@lemmy.world 2 months ago
That is true, neither shaming people for how they might feel in the moment nor sharing it without context is great or helpful.