I guess that destroys that theory.
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jol@discuss.tchncs.de 11 months agoAm gay. I don’t make the bed unless I expect visits. Does it make me feel fricking good to see a tidy bed and house? Yes. Will I do it every day? Absolutely not.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 11 months ago
victorz@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Just like us cis folk might feel as well. Am cis male, feel the same way, sorry of. In fact, I might even make the bed more often when my wife isn’t around because she keeps telling me that living things like a tidy bed more just after you get up out of it, so wait a while until making it. But if I wait, it never gets done. I’ll do it immediately if she isn’t around.
fushuan@lemm.ee 11 months ago
FYI, gay men can be cis too, I guess you meant straight. Cis means you feel like the sex you physically have, it has nothing to do with sexual preference.
victorz@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Ah okay. Gosh, I’ve had the wrong idea about that. I thought it was what you describe plus being straight. My mistake, thank you so much for the correction.
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 11 months ago
Cis is just the opposite of trans.
Leg@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
Cishet is the term you’re thinking of for that.
SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I’m confused.
victorz@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Couldn’t find the word when writing that comment, but I was referring to mites. Mites like a warm, made bed. But if you leave everything a bit rustled up while the bed cools off after you’ve left it, they don’t get too comfortable. Then you can make the bed after it has cooled. I’m guessing they like both the warmth, as well as the easier navigation of a made bed?
phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
Mites just appreciate when you make the bed for them.
I’d personally be more inclined to get rid of the mites rather than make them slightly uncomfortable, but each to their own.