You’re very smart. Often you don’t know until it’s too late and then getting out of that situation isn’t easy.
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whostosay@lemmy.world 1 week agoThere are plenty of foods I don’t like, I avoid em
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago
whostosay@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Be honest with yourself and your partner in what you want. If those boundaries are crossed, dip.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
If we’re using food as an example, pick which mushroom is the toxic one to avoid
A)
2326
B)
2327
One of them will kill you. Choose wisely.
(My point is that toxic women can often mask as nontoxic for quite some time, much like you can’t just tell by looking at these mushrooms which will kill you, you can’t always tell by looking at women which are toxic either. Sure the Aminita Muscara may be identifiable and so would any woman with glaring toxicity, but sneaky ones are afoot too, and much like other abusive relationships frog, boiling water, yadda yadda you’ve heard that bit before.)
whostosay@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Well yeah, but over time you start to realize behaviors. Just like over time, we’ve learned to rub potentially hazardous foods on your skin, then wait, the mucus membrane, then wait, then tiny piece, then wait. You don’t just jump right in with some random mushrooms.
I’m not knocking anyone for getting your first crazy SO surprise, but after a bit it’s a George W. Bush fool me once shame on, shame on you, fool me, can’t get fooled again situation.
Make boundaries, communicate, and go after what you want and try to work on what you don’t, and if it’s not possible it’s time to go. sometimes that’s not easy, but relationships aren’t easy.
drasglaf@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
First one, Amanita Phalloides if I’m not mistaken.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
Take a bite and find out!
drasglaf@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I like my liver solid as it is, thank you very much.