Comment on This world is cruel…

• Shapillon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Hitting the gym can’t hurt but it’s very low on my list of priorities.

  Being chill, open with one’s emotions, able to communicate reasonably, willing to help around etc are way higher.

  Usually being a woman helps too but life’s life.

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  • ripripripriprip@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Those aren’t really hobbies, though.

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    • Vilian@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Isn’t drag queen literally being woman as a hobbie?

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      • bishbosh@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        damn…

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    • GiveMemes@jlai.lu ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      The issue us that the hobbies you have have little correlation with whether or not women like you. I do many things on the list of hobbies that women find unattractive, but I don’t have trouble pulling because very little of attracting a sexual partner actually has to do with having a lot in common with them. It’s more of vibey thing like that guy was saying.

      At the same time, the gym is gonna help self image and self confidence which will help you be fun chill and easygoing which will help you get laid.

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    • Shapillon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Exactly!

      As long as they’re not punt kicking kitten or dropkicking old folks, hobbies are pretty much irrelevant imho.

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• punkfungus@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  As someone who does hit the gym, in my experience the majority of people you’re impressing with your physique are men. Sure I’d say most women like it if you have it (assuming you aren’t too big), but generalising that it’s the main attraction would be a mistake.

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  • lorty@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Anyone who has been around actual gym rats knows that it’s never the opposite sex they are chatting, comparing and posing with.

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  • lseif@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    good thing thats my goal too :-)

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• UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  anyone who thinks the answer isn’t “hit the gym” is coping.

  I’d put “hit the dermatologist” above it. Plenty of girls go for the skinny or husky builds. But blemishes are a universal turn off

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  • GiveMemes@jlai.lu ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    The benefits of hitting the gym are much more than just getting swole. It increases self-confidence, helps to improve self-image, etc, which are all way more important to getting laid than any hobby you could have.

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    • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      It increases self-confidence, helps to improve self-image, etc

      I could say exactly the same of the dermatologist.

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      • GiveMemes@jlai.lu ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Not at a biochemical/hormonal level, which you definitely can for at least physical activity.

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• Prandom_returns@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Too much generalisation for my taste.

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• uis@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  There is even song about it!

  Search Try КАЧ here

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