Funnily enough, your wife said the same thing.
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Siethron@lemmy.world 4 days agoAlso a woman’s ability to cum varies HIGHLY from person to person.
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captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
I’ve noticed a pretty direct correlation with a woman’s habit of masturbating and her ability to orgasm during sex. The chick I was seeing just before I went back to college, I’d believe it if you told me that I’ve played with her clit more than she ever has TO THIS DAY, and guess what? She never once gave me any suggestion on what she wanted me to do, I’m sure because she genuinely didn’t know.
MisterFrog@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Funnily enough, this is the case for men too. Hence all the “this has never happened to me before” memes on TV shows in the 90s and 00s.
Croquette@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
I’d say day to day as well, depending on many factors (stress, energy level, hormones, etc.)
Just communicate and see what’s working or not, or if anything works at all. It will make the sex better for everyone involved.