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• crashfrog@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I bid that non autistic people be named and categorized in a way that highlights their subtly hostile, backstabbing, cruel nature

  Are you sure you’re “autistic”? Are you sure you’re not just a fucking asshole?

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  • Comment105@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    In exaggerating a little, but to me it’s pretty fucking clear you have some issues of your own. Not exclusively, but definitely as common tendencies.

    I don’t know how deep the rabbit hole goes, but the less distinct pathologies of the common clay are certainly also much less explored. The plains lying between the tallest peaks and deepest, darkest caves, left comparably undisturbed. The resting place of the explorers, disinterested in undermining their own camp.

    There are variations of normal, some whose defined traits might be even less charitable that those described in the definition of the prototypical autist.

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  • sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I don’t doubt they’re autistic.

    I also don’t understand why you think they’re an asshole. Allistic people often do act like low tier psychopaths: manipulative, selfish, overconfident and hypocritical.

    It’s just that they do this in ways they don’t perceive, such that they don’t recognize it until it crosses a more extreme threshold.

    Here’s a … perhaps more palatable version of the same idea:

    m.youtube.com/watch?v=cZiR4o6j4HY&pp=ygUyd2hhdCBh…

    And if you’d like to know more:

    m.youtube.com/watch?v=ugQEiZG19Rs&pp=ygU_d2hhdCBp…

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    • crashfrog@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Allistic people often do act like low tier psychopaths: manipulative, selfish, overconfident and hypocritical.

      All human beings have the capability to act this way, including autistic humans. When you say “well, but these other guys are just like that” that’s when you should suspect you’re being an asshole.

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      • sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Ok so you don’t seem to know much about psychology.

        Sure, in an extremely broad sense, all humans have the capability to act in any way.

        When certain groups of people actually do, repeatedly act in certain ways more often than others do, when its so commonplace to them that other people have to point out that they are behaving that way because they do not even realize it, now you have the beginnings of how to classify people psychologically.

        If we all have the theoretical, idealized capacity to violently assault and murder random animals with no provocation or explanation… super. Great.

        How about the people that actually do that regularly?

        You can’t do any kind if psychological screening or differentiation or descriptors whatsoever if your entire theory is ‘well technically anybody can do anything, so everyone is the same’.

        This is like 11th grade debate club sophistry you’re pushing here.

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  • ToyDork@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Yeah, I’m angry and even violently so, but not out of a hatred of a group. I think OP’s boss is an asshole, and I think Israel are not the good guys right now, but I also think antisemitism is no better and I don’t want anyone innocent, like children, getting caught in the crossfire like they were during the Holocaust and like they are being today in Gaza.

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    • crashfrog@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I don’t want anyone innocent, like children, getting caught in the crossfire like they were during the Holocaust

      …what?

      Sorry, can you explain how you think children died in the Holocaust because of crossfire?

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      • ToyDork@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Okay, that’s cherrypicking. I am not saying it was crossfire like any Jews deserved to die, they didn’t. I’m saying that anyone calling children “just collateral damage” is evil, because THAT’S what I meant by crossfire, “they are not just collateral damage, you CHOSE not to care that your actions might hurt innocents”.

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• TheHarpyEagle@pawb.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  instead of simply being a friendly and polite contributor to society.

  Do you think allistic people are inherently incapable of doing this earnestly?

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• sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I propose we start Zionism for Autists.

  I’m sure that’ll go well rofl.

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  • KellysNokia@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    The train infrastructure would be amazing

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    • sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Ah trains, my first love, hahah.

      Speaking for myself, I do find it pretty funny how the ‘obsessed with trains at/from a young age’ stereotype very often actually is true of Autists, amidst the vast, churning ocean of more common yet wildly inaccurate and offensive stereotypes.

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  • Comment105@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Funny, but that’s entirely different from what I wrote in all but general vibe, maybe. Besides, following Israel’s example isn’t exactly a recipe for success.

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    • sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Sorry, I have a knee jerk comedy response to any idea that Autistic people will ever actually be seen as anything other than weird smart people that occasionally freak out for no reason and are hard to talk to.

      I mean sure, you can describe allistic people pathologically they way they describe us pathologically, and sure, a few genuinely empathetic people might care, but the rest will not change.

      While I do not socialize cynically with ulterior motives, I am quite cynical that the idea of precisely and accurately shaming the vast majority of humans on the planet having any positive social effect.

      My whole life has been explaining myself and my basic boundaries to people and maybe 3% of them actually make a conscious effort to not be manipulative hypocrites.

      Hence the semi-serious, semi-on-topic, semi-ironic Autist Zion suggestion:

      We don’t fit in well anywhere, we’re misunderstood and mistreated quite often, and though I genuinely would love to live in a place with a majority Autist population, actual Zionism itself shows how making a designated safe territory for a people group can be extremely problematic.

      Hell, someone else is already replying to me and I think? they are seriously suggesting mass vigilante violence in the name of stamping out bigots…

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• Dasus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Words aren’t bad in and of themselves, usually. For one, “psychopath” freely translates to “suffering soul” but you could also do “mind in disease”. Neither sound too insulting, per se, do they?

  You’ll alway have euphemisms and if there’s a difference that can be noted, then usually the people’s who differ from the norm will be called something “bad”.

  Take left-handed people. Sinister. That’s where the word comes from. “Sinister” as in the Latin word for “left”.

  Then we’ll just end up on the

  en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Euphemism#Euphemism_tread…

  Why care about what words someone uses if you know you have better ones yourself? It’s the intent behind the words that most often matters. To neurotypicals, anyway.

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