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Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  What do asexuals think about when they masterbate?

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  • i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    A

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    • Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Aaaaaaaah

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    • hate2bme@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Haha

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  • absentbird@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    A lot of asexuals who masturbate don’t do it with a sexual mindset, it’s more like an exercise to relieve stress or get a little boost of dopamine.

    It would be like asking “what do people without food fetishes think about when eating?” Idk, whatever is on their mind. They might think about how good it feels, but they could also be thinking about something totally unrelated.

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    • Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      This. Varies by person, but I’d say they’re thi king about the sensation, or possibly a kink (Asexuals can have kinks).

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• LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’m 27 and seriously questioning if I’m actually gay or just some flavor of ace with an aversion to most sexual acts. I haven’t had any sexual contact with a woman except for a single kiss, so I don’t know if I can be sure yet. I absolutely despise the touch of men. It took 3 boyfriends to realize that men disgust me in regards to phyical/romantic/sexual contact.

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  • Danquebec@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Did you try looking at photos of naked people?

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    • LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah. Dicks are disgusting. Naked women are attractive in all aspects. Porn is great if the focus is on the woman and her enjoyment. But I can’t get over how gross oral seems. Like, idk if I could handle it. The thought wigs me out.

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      • Danquebec@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Sounds like a clear cut case to me: you’re lesbian. Not sure why you are doubting.

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      • Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        You might just not like oral. Asexuals don’t find people sexually attractive. They can find them aesthetically or romantically attractive, though.

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• fleetwheels@walledgarden.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I figured out I was ace about a year or two ago. When I told a friend he said, “Yeah, everyone can tell, you’re the least sexual person I’ve ever met.”

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  • Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Lol that could be taken different ways.

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