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They put in effort, they try to be the kind of person their partner wants them to be, and their partner loves them for trying.

You say this but plenty of shitbags are in relationship just because they look hot.

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Pelicanen@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
Plenty of shitbags in relationships who aren’t hot as well. People don’t like being lonely and relationships are often sold to us as fixing that loneliness, even when the opposite might be closer to the truth when you’re talking about a bad relationship.

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anivia@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
Looking hot also takes effort

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- fibojoly@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
  Apparently not everybody here lives with women if they think self care doesn’t take fucking ages, let alone looking hot! It’s kinda sad really, not to realise the amount of effort put in.
  
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- TheBat@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
  Nope.
  
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