Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?
You_are_dust@lemm.ee 11 months agoSince she’s not normally like this, you really need to talk to her to figure out what exactly happened that set off this series of events.
Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?
You_are_dust@lemm.ee 11 months agoSince she’s not normally like this, you really need to talk to her to figure out what exactly happened that set off this series of events.
AmidFuror@fedia.io 11 months ago
It's probably she was upset that he didn't follow through with what he promised. In her anger she came up with a bunch of hypotheticals to grill him about. The real issue is she thinks he doesn't care enough to meet her where he said he would.
You_are_dust@lemm.ee 11 months ago
Possibly. Ultimately there needs to be better communication between both of them.
Wes4Humanity@lemm.ee 11 months ago
Hopefully
AmidFuror@fedia.io 11 months ago
Either she's like the rest of us and sometimes does irrational and dramatic things when angry, or she has an undiagnosed mental health disorder involving paranoia.
Apparently those are the options.
Wes4Humanity@lemm.ee 11 months ago
When healthy people are angry they use healthy coping skills to deescalate and then approach the conversation in a calm and rational way. Regardless of whether this is a full-blown mental illness or not, assuming this was really her reaction, something is not okay.