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She’s not normally like this, and yes Ubers usually drop people off right at the entrance of our apartment. Aside from Uber, she would also take the bus or train into the city, both of which requre a five minutes walk through our neighborhood which she has no problem doing.

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You_are_dust@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Since she’s not normally like this, you really need to talk to her to figure out what exactly happened that set off this series of events.

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- AmidFuror@fedia.io ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  It's probably she was upset that he didn't follow through with what he promised. In her anger she came up with a bunch of hypotheticals to grill him about. The real issue is she thinks he doesn't care enough to meet her where he said he would.
  
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  - You_are_dust@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    Possibly. Ultimately there needs to be better communication between both of them.
    
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  - Wes4Humanity@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    Hopefully
    
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    AmidFuror@fedia.io ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    Either she's like the rest of us and sometimes does irrational and dramatic things when angry, or she has an undiagnosed mental health disorder involving paranoia.
    
    Apparently those are the options.
    
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the_artic_one@programming.dev ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

She’s not normally like this

If there’s no situational cause for this change in behavior, there’s a chance she’s experiencing paranoia from an undiagnosed mental health condition. Look up the signs of mania (bipolar disorder), borderline personality disorder, and schizophrenia. If it looks like it might be one of those then you need consult professionals and family because it’s not something you’re going to be able to help her with on your own with advice from Internet strangers.

Take care of yourself, of she continues to behave abusively you need to get away whether this behavior comes from untreated illness or not.

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