I feel like this is a very “shoplifting, public intoxication, nuclear warfare, and jaywalking” way to present things.
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Speculater@lemmy.world 5 weeks agoWhich is why my father will die alone and without love. You do not demand authority, you earn it, and you better recognize when you’re being an asshole to your adult children. Also, don’t molest your niece and lie to the cops.
wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 weeks ago
Speculater@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
This didn’t come out until later, because my sister and niece didn’t want to “destroy the family.” Once my niece was old enough she told us on her own and I guess that’s why I presented in that order. But yes, I agree.
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 5 weeks ago
We all die alone. Get over it.
Lemminary@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Wtf?
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 5 weeks ago
Nobody is going with you. Whenever it’s your turn, it’s only you. Sorry for it.
Absolute_Axoltl@feddit.uk 5 weeks ago
But there’s a difference between “dying and going somewhere with others” and dying surrounded by loved ones.
UraniumBlazer@lemm.ee 5 weeks ago
WHAT. I’m so sorry…
Speculater@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
We believe her and he’s a piece of shit. Don’t be sorry for me and she’s doing great! She’s got a lot of supportive and loving uncles. It’s crazy how fucking common the crime is and how a grown man can just… Tell the cops, it didn’t happen. Case closed.
UraniumBlazer@lemm.ee 5 weeks ago
Lucky girl.
EXCUSE ME WHAT
Wait, so nothing happened? The cops left him?
BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee 5 weeks ago
That’s an unfortunately common occurrence when the police are brought in for crimes like this. Most sexual abuse is perpetrated by people who have a relationship with the victim, usually family. 1 in 5 women have been raped, a third of those women were raped between the ages of 11 and 17. 81% of women will experience some form of sexual harassment or assault in their lifetimes. Only 20-40% of rapes are reported to the police. Only about half of those result in arrest. 80% of the arrests are prosecuted. 58% of the prosecutions result in conviction. And 69% of the convicted offenders will serve time in jail/prison. So for every 100 rapists, about 3 of them will go to prison.
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Speculater@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Other than losing his family, no. Nothing happened. The cops thought my sister was lying or there wasn’t enough evidence.
10_0@lemmy.ml 5 weeks ago
What happend?
Speculater@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
I know why people are voting you down, but it’s generally considered bad taste to ask details about sexual abuse. Giving details actually acts as a way for other pedophiles to get off.
I’ll leave it vague but factual. He was babysitting her when she was young and he molested her. She told my sister about it and she called the cops. The police believed my father and made it a “he said she said” situation between my sister and father.