They missed this, but she’s upset because he’s imagining her as a man
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MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 5 months agoThank you! For some reason my brain didn’t make the connection between the slag of “bussy” and “boy pussy”.
Dunno why she would be upset by it in an open relationship, but okay.
CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 5 months ago
Unless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be.
But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.
CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
Even if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.
MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 5 months ago
That’s fair enough. I don’t personally let such things bother me, but I’m strange.
RGB3x3@lemmy.world 5 months ago
I always thought Bussy was a portmanteau of Butthole and Pussy.
Because I’ve definitely heard people use it in context where I can’t imagine they were talking about a “boy pussy”
nomous@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Butt-pussy, boy-pussy, same thing isn’t it? The etymology is slightly different but it has the same meaning, a butthole.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 months ago
I mean, if I was getting fucked by someone and they were actively fantasizing about me being someone else, I would be upset, open relationship or no