I’m with you on this. It doesn’t feel like cheating at all unless it’s with a man
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ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 1 month agoI’m in my early 40s with four kids now and that seems like way too much work lol. To be clear though, I definitely would have considered it cheating if she was with another dude. It was just with other women it wasn’t an issue at all for me.
FUBAR@lemm.ee 1 month ago
ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 1 month ago
Might even get a threesome out of it!
yetiftw@lemmy.world 1 month ago
in that case you may have some unrealized homophobia, causing you to not view queer interactions as fully valid compared to straight interactions
ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 1 month ago
lol what? Not sure what you read but I said I had no problem with my girlfriend with other girls.
Furthermore I’ve hung out with tons of gay people. My brother was gay (died of fentanyl). Zero issues with whatever people want to do in their bedroom. None of my business anyway.
RBWells@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I think they mean some guys don’t consider 2 women having sex to be “real sex” so they don’t think it’s cheating.
ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 1 month ago
Oh, im really not that deep. I don’t spend much time worrying about what others are doing for sex or intimacy.
Some other user said it’s probably because I can’t compare myself to a girl, unlike another man, which is probably true.
Appreciate you explaining what they probably meant by that comment as I was extremely confused