You don't commit to a stranger really. Normally you've met them and spoke multiple times and the families have spoken throughout both kids lives. I had a friend when I was young who knew her intended spouse from 7 years old and there was no plan to marry until she was finished with uni. She used to carry a picture of him in her wallet like we all had boyband members.
Even once you get to the marriage bit there's chances to say no then.
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 5 months ago
For starters my parents would not have picked my preferred gender to mate with…
beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 months ago
Yeah exactly. Straight people, can’t live with them, yet we’re forced to 🤮