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gmtom@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

There’s also another side to this where you’re too passive. Since girls, and especially more introverted girls, will expect the man to be the driving force of the relationship, if you don’t express interest and eventually shoot your shot, then even if she was interested in you she will just move on to someone else.

So you really have to be in touch with social queues in order to strike a balance between too pushy and too passive, which for groups that massively overprepresent the autistic and otherwise socially awkward is asking a lot.

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