Comment on Anon has nerdy hobbies

Sam_Bass@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• PM_Your_Nudes_Please@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I mean, is it trying to be one of the guys, or is it simply enjoying a hobby that is predominantly male? There’s a big difference between a pickme and someone who simply enjoys a hobby.

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  • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I took that as “trying to get along/fit in, with a predominately male group”.

    It would seem that you took it as more of “trying to get ‘in’ with a boys club”.

    I don’t think either interpretation is wrong, per-se, but one does have a bit of a more negative tone to it, IMO.

    Far be it for me to tell you what to think, or that your understanding is wrong. Bluntly, it was a fairly poor choice of words on the commenters part.

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    • PM_Your_Nudes_Please@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      They responded to my comment, basically directly confirming my interpretation.

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      • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        That’s fair. Maybe I’m just too optimistic.

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  • Sam_Bass@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If youreplaying with a bunch of males, yeah youre working on fitting in which makes you one of them

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    • Bob@midwest.social ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      What is it about role-playing that’s strictly masculine? Like, why does the group have to be gendered.

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      • Sam_Bass@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Not a psychologist so cant say. Just one of those things guys find attractive and want to be involved in. Appeals to our drive for adventure would be my guess

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• AsherahTheEnd@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Men will literally blame anything but themselves for their own behavior. Wild.

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  • Soulg@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Right because no woman ever has ever blamed hormones for her behavior

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