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• protist@retrofed.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Is this saying a love triangle is a threesome? I’ve literally never heard the term love triangle describe a threesome

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  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Love triangle is different, and usually context is competitive non-dating and usually in a monogamous context.

    A “love triangle” is different from a “triangle”.

    A love triangle is what we see in movies from Hollywood, most commonly with two guys fighting over winning a girl or something.

    A triangle, when it comes to ENM, is when all three people sleep together.

    Whereas a triad (ENM term, again) would be like three people (persons A, B, and C), all living alone. Look at the arrows in the picture, those are the relationships. A and B are in a relationship, but all three are not in a relationship.

    The way to think about it is, with three people in a triad, there are only three relationships. With a triangle (or another shape where everybody’s in a relationship, like a quad) you add an extra relationship count for the group itself. So for a triangle (or whatever people want to call it if they want to differentiate) where it is threesomes and they all travel as a pack, there are four relationships: each couple and the group itself.

    And to make it more complicated, the shapes aren’t necessarily closed: some or all of them can have other relationships, sometimes even different types, too. Like three people living and in a group relationship, and person A is simultaneously in a different trianlge or triad, and person C might have basically just a fuck buddy, or even just a cuddle partner, like if that cuddle partner has really really similar high compatibility emotionally but not sexually.

    ENM is great.

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    • protist@retrofed.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      That’s a lot of labels and definitions

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      • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Yeah sorry bit of tmi, it’s been a weird day

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