Comment on The only issue I’ve had in my open marriage

Varesti@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

• manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  People dont know how to love each other anymore, you say you love someone and they assume you want to be locked alone in a room with them for the rest of your lives

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  • gray@lemmy.ml ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    This! I can love my hookup for a couple of hours and then love “the witcher 3 free remaster” the next day. I hate that “I love you” carry so many additional meanings.

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• gegil@sopuli.xyz ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  You guys have friends?

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  • tetris11@feddit.uk ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I had a friend who had friends. They were my friends, until I lost that friend, and went back to zero again

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    • teslekova@lemmy.ml ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yep, that’s the serious problem you get if you’re letting someone else do the work of maintaining friendships. You gotta reach out to people yourself.

      How to meet those ppl in the first place? No idea, I got like 5 ppl I still know from college and I’m holding on to em for dear life.

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      • tetris11@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Yeah I’ve got a few mates. I see them maybe once or twice a year. It’s… it’s fine

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• imnotvector@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Sure do. Wouldn’t leave my wife for them though…

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