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I had a scenario like this when I was couch surfing while going to college. So there I am in a attic room surrounded by 5? girls and I thought to myself wtf am I doing here. I just came here to do my laundry, my friends girlfriend said it was okay and I could take showers there as well. In hindsight, I realized I’m an idiot. She showed me her room as well. I totally missed the subtle messages; she was very intelligent, she explained her school project about the function of ATP (Adenosine triphosphate). But hey I was a brain dead skateboarder then lol

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Ricaz@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
Idk, sounds to me like they feel comfortable around you.

I have a few close female friends, one I even usually share a bed with on trips. I asked her why it’s like this once and it boiled down to “you don’t expect anything from me”.

I do have a partner and usually hang out mostly with women, so maybe I’m just not attractive, who knows

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- myyass@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  I mean looking back, I don’t disagree. One of the girls would help me with random stuff. Another always wanted to take photos together and put them online, I said no thank you to that. I think that people have different interpretations of attraction. In a way I found being taught about ATP very attractive but I wasn’t going to interject myself between her and my friend. So you probably have an attractiveness beyond a physical appearance.
  
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  - Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    You are a good dude. If you were fine with being an interloper you would have probably picked up on the vibe.
    
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TheHooligan95@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
I don’t understand I’m a braindead biker

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- myyass@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
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  I had turned into a biker at one point. It was about an eight mile ride to get this shot. Probably one of my favorite, and probably because riding all the way up there.
  
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  - lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Thanks for my new ultrawide desktop background!
    
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    myyass@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    You’re welcome! Thanks for using it!
    
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