Comment on Should I move out?

• farmgineer@nord.pub ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  whenever I cut somebody off majority of the time I explain why in a respectful way without arguing with them.

  If you are regularly cutting people off, there’s already a problem. I wouldn’t associate with anyone who did that.

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  • gumball2005@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I never said it was a regular thing?

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    • Fallibilist@feddit.uk ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      whenever I cut somebody off majority of the time I explain why in a respectful way without arguing with them.

      But you’ve done it more than twice where as most people never have to do that. It’s a major red flag.

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      • gumball2005@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        kinda crazy to assume that when you haven’t met any of these people

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• Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I’ve tried to repair things with these people, but majority of the time I don’t think I do anything wrong. I know I may come off as ignorant, but I whenever I cut somebody off majority of the time I explain why in a respectful way without arguing with them.

  I did that with somebody recently and they ended up telling everybody I tried to sexually abuse them, which obviously didn’t happen.

  Most of them have had me blocked since high school and yet they still have things to say about me to the people I know today.

  I’m having a hard time trying to find out for what purpose you have written exactly this as an answer to my (attempted) advice.

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