Comment on Should I move out?

• Fallibilist@feddit.uk ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Assume what?

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  • gumball2005@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Well I just feel like you’re assuming I cut people off for no reason, when in reality I don’t like doing it all, I hate confrontation. I almost never cut people off, and most of the time people just stop talking to me for whatever reason so I just reciprocate that.

    I dont really know what makes me the common denominator in situations like this, people treat me badly, I distance myself indefinitely and then I cut them off when something tips me over the edge. As i’ve stated before I try to be as inoffensive as possible, so maybe plain bad luck is a factor.

    I’ve been referred to as the “common denominator” before by someone, but I feel as if it’s a pretty big generalisation that doesn’t really address the other person. Either way, nobody bothers to tell me why or tries to actually talk to me about it.

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