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Fallibilist@feddit.uk 3 hours agowhenever I cut somebody off majority of the time I explain why in a respectful way without arguing with them.
But you’ve done it more than twice where as most people never have to do that. It’s a major red flag.
gumball2005@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
kinda crazy to assume that when you haven’t met any of these people
Fallibilist@feddit.uk 3 hours ago
Assume what?
gumball2005@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
Well I just feel like you’re assuming I cut people off for no reason, when in reality I don’t like doing it all, I hate confrontation. I almost never cut people off, and most of the time people just stop talking to me for whatever reason so I just reciprocate that.
I dont really know what makes me the common denominator in situations like this, people treat me badly, I distance myself indefinitely and then I cut them off when something tips me over the edge. As i’ve stated before I try to be as inoffensive as possible, so maybe plain bad luck is a factor.
I’ve been referred to as the “common denominator” before by someone, but I feel as if it’s a pretty big generalisation that doesn’t really address the other person. Either way, nobody bothers to tell me why or tries to actually talk to me about it.