Also, and this is the cheat code to all relationships, regardless of gender:, be interested in them. Ask them questions about themselves and their interests instead of just trying to impress them with how great you are. Even, maybe especially, if you think you know something about what theyâre taking about, play slightly dumb and ask questions.
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RedGreenBlue@lemmy.zip âš1â© âšdayâ© ago
The bas is usually a little lower:
- Show respect
- Be polite
- Donât assault her
- Be good looking
BartyDeCanter@piefed.social âš18â© âšhoursâ© ago
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today âš17â© âšhoursâ© ago
I tend to do that with people I like as friends.
Who I really donât want to rizz up đ
PrimeMinisterKeyes@leminal.space âš17â© âšhoursâ© ago
This lines up with what the ever-quotable Talleyrand once said:
âIf you wish to be popular in society consent to be taught many things you already know.âIt didnât prevent him to be called âshit in a silk stockingâ by NapolĂ©on on one occasion, though.
applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš21â© âšhoursâ© ago
for some of us the bar is a little higher than that
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be a woman
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be chill
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seblin@lemmy.world âš1â© âšdayâ© ago
Donât even need the good looking tbh
qwertyasdf@feddit.uk âš21â© âšhoursâ© ago
Me fuck ugly:
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