Also, and this is the cheat code to all relationships, regardless of gender:, be interested in them. Ask them questions about themselves and their interests instead of just trying to impress them with how great you are. Even, maybe especially, if you think you know something about what theyâre taking about, play slightly dumb and ask questions.
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RedGreenBlue@lemmy.zip âš3â© âšweeksâ© ago
The bas is usually a little lower:
- Show respect
- Be polite
- Donât assault her
- Be good looking
BartyDeCanter@piefed.social âš3â© âšweeksâ© ago
PrimeMinisterKeyes@leminal.space âš3â© âšweeksâ© ago
This lines up with what the ever-quotable Talleyrand once said:
âIf you wish to be popular in society consent to be taught many things you already know.âIt didnât prevent him to be called âshit in a silk stockingâ by NapolĂ©on on one occasion, though.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today âš3â© âšweeksâ© ago
I tend to do that with people I like as friends.
Who I really donât want to rizz up đ
aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
The line between friends and partners is basically nothing, donât overthink it
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Iâd love if some single friends were more open to using me though.
I would not say no.
seblin@lemmy.world âš3â© âšweeksâ© ago
Donât even need the good looking tbh