Wait, for what reason?
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SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months agoYeah he’s banned from blahaj for a fucking reason.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
PugJesus@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Because I, while on a non-Blahaj instance and having not used any Blahaj comms in months, opined that while I would use anyone’s neopronouns, including Drag’s, and had no interest in getting into an argument with anyone about their gender, I didn’t think dragons were real.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I thought that was it. Yeah, Ada definitely defends her site with a level of zeal. She mellowed out as potential community issues dwindled, but was contemporaneously doing what beehaw hoped to do. Building a safe space in a semi-open system.
If someone wants to make up pronouns and act like a goof, they’re protected under the same system by design. Even questioning the questionable is perceived as an attack in a safe space. Fundamentally, she wants everyone at blahaj to feel 200% safe. Real? Fake? Not anyone’s business. Just be and allow others to be.
Finally making my way to my point, most people don’t need to be in a safe space. Pointing out that someone’s manner of being isn’t conducive to the perpetuation of a safe space is really not much of a takedown and I’m not sure why the user above feels like it is.
PugJesus@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Unfortunately, Ada still to this day spreads slander that I do not respect neopronouns, despite that explicitly not being the issue and being corrected on that.
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
He a narrow definition of transness and harassed the community over a trans person ostensibly feeling unwelcome because of people like, fuck, what was their name, the dragon fucker person, who wanted to be referred to by their name only.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Isn’t drag just trolling? Drag’s the alt account of another, more prolific user apparently lacking any of the same… would zoophilic tendencies be the right phrasing when speaking about a sapient, fictional species? Either way, I just hope people feel safe on blahaj when all is said and done.
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
I dunno Drag always seemed sincere to me, and perhaps Drag was outed as a troll later on (I haven’t seen them in a long time, maybe that’s why), but really what it comes down to is having basic respect for people instead of instantly deciding they must be a troll because of their profile. Ada isn’t about people making snap judgments with no evidence and Drags neopronouns were just as valid as anyone else’s.
eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
And even after he’s gone, he still is downvoting people here. He just can’t leave the place he said he’s leaving. I guess he has more transphobia and genocide to defend.
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
He’s not done acting with “dignity and grace” or whatever the fuck lmao
eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Admiral Patrick and PugJeuss are the smae person effectively. Both hate actions being called out.
By the way, SmugJesus replied to St Elesewere and said Ada is lying about him. He knows you and Ada can’t rebuke him, so he replies only to people who can’t read his messages to prove him wrong.
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
A tip of the hat ol’ Eugene Debs as per always. You’ve also always been a good egg, friend.
PugJesus@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Sorry for providing evidence of your bullshit, lmao. I know you hate evidence.
I have literally spoken directly to Ada several times on the issue, and her response was to block me. Sorry that not everyone is a coward like you. :)