I think the point is that it shouldn’t be.
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velma@sh.itjust.works 6 days agoIt’s not normal to suppress your libido to fit in.
AstralPath@lemmy.ca 5 days ago
Fawkes@lemmy.zip 5 days ago
What you want to be normal and what is actually normal are not the same thing. Regardless of best wishes, it actually is normal in a shocking number of places. Unless you’re referring exclusively to the small social circle you live in, but that’s not really a useful data point for us to discuss, because it’s not what the conversation is actually about.
gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 6 days ago
It is societally expected in much of the world, however - and the degree to which it’s expected also varies with gender and culture.
velma@sh.itjust.works 6 days ago
I think it varies enough that calling it “normal” is inaccurate.