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I’m horrified and appalled by how the community perceived my intentions; at large, judging by the number of votes on comments in the conversation below, placing no doubt in them being nothing more than sick and twisted desire for attention.

The formula as I see it in my head is quite simple. I would want to hear this said to me; it would make my day; wouldn’t they want to hear it just as much? I waited for long enough that no special feelings are currently present.

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mojofrododojo@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

I would want to hear this said to me; it would make my day;

then tell yourself and leave the other person to their fucking life.

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hedders@fedia.io ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

I'm horrified and appalled by how the community perceived my intentions; at large, judging by the number of votes on comments in the conversation below, placing no doubt in them being nothing more than sick and twisted desire for attention

You might want to think about that a bit.

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- nitroemdash@lemmy.wtf ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  You all will NOT gaslight me into thinking I’m insane. You. Will. Not.
  
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  - hedders@fedia.io ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
    
    You all will NOT gaslight me into thinking I'm insane. You. Will. Not.
    
    Nobody is gaslighting you. You asked for advice. The fact that you don't like the advice you're getting probably means you need to hear it all the more.
    
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